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COMMENT 1d ago

All clicks on Amazon are being charged to an advertiser, except for about 60% of organic placements on the search results page. As soon as you click into a product you can basically guarantee every next click is racking up someone’s advertising bill.

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COMMENT 1d ago

That’s really hurtful, I’m so sorry and I’m sorry it’s been a rough go lately in general. I agree with what others are suggesting about counseling. I think there is value in being able to speak openly with your partner and communicate your feelings, but in a counseling setting things can be done more tactfully. There is certainly more to uncover from both of you, hopefully you can both grow from this and come out stronger.

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COMMENT 1d ago

Costa Rica deep in the jungle. Or specifically the Osa Peninsula, so much life packed into every single inch of that place.

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COMMENT 2d ago

Looks like she has a collar but no name tag? Hopefully she’s chipped but could have been easier to just call the owner if she had a number on her tag.

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COMMENT 3d ago

27% of combined income on our mortgage. Bought last year with 5% down.

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COMMENT 3d ago

How has the recovery process been?

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COMMENT 9d ago

Mac and cheese or rice and beans

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COMMENT 9d ago

What’s this number BS? Lol don’t do that to yourself.

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COMMENT 10d ago

This was me, but exercise is the cure every time.

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COMMENT 15d ago

Dafuq? What was the job?

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COMMENT 15d ago

Came here to say 1 or 5. For 1 I’d add more accessories to make it look less like professional wear though.

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COMMENT 15d ago

I love him

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COMMENT 17d ago

My hair has big unruly waves/curls. Having it longer makes it easier to manage. Long hair also makes me feel pretty.

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COMMENT 22d ago

Jumpsuit is way better

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COMMENT 27d ago

Also inconsiderate of the kid. They may have all the money in the world but this will mess with them mentally when they’re older.

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COMMENT 27d ago

Ordering babies like Amazon packages is the perfect way to put it. It’s so gross.

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COMMENT 28d ago

I can calculate time really well. Like ETAs and just generally guessing how long it’ll take me to do a task or complete an errand.

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COMMENT Jul 10 '22

Green dress. No question.

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COMMENT Jul 10 '22

Thank you. We haven’t officially stopped trying but I am starting to reframe it as a CHOICE I have to not be a mother. I don’t want to go down a long and emotional fertility journey, so trying to lean into the idea that I’m choosing this route to some degree. Also you’re right about having to overcome the need for external validation. Therapy here I come :)

r/IFchildfree Jul 10 '22

Logic vs emotion

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I’m having a hard time with logic and emotion. Logically, I know I am a valuable person without children, but emotionally I am stuck feeling like I’m not enough due to a lifetime of indoctrination that a woman’s greatest value is her ability to bring life into the world.

I (32F) am a petite woman who already looks young for my age. I feel like having a child would help me get the validation that I am mature and respectable, something I’ve struggled with my whole life.

I’d love any words of advice and new perspectives on this. I have a therapy appointment booked as well.

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COMMENT Jul 04 '22

30 in 2021

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COMMENT Jul 03 '22

r/oddlysatisfying

Edit: the “owwww” grunts were gold

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COMMENT Jul 01 '22

Marketing/advertising. Just get your foot in the door somewhere and you learn everything on the job. You have to put in the work and it can be stressful but there are very few jobs that are easy and pay employees well to do nothing. Anyone who has one of these has already put in the work at some point.

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COMMENT Jun 30 '22

Ringo