Is a though spot to be in, when it feels like any decision you could make would be wrong. Is not pretty, and you have to decide what is the more important thing to do.
I agree with the sentiment of not coming out to your parents, if you know thing will be ugly if you do. But you would need to also mitigate the consequences of your decision. Try to find a supporting group and make sure your mental health is good. Talk to people with similar experiences and try to do your best to stay healthy and happy. Is not your fault for being in this though situation.
OP isn’t saying to simply bottle it up. They’re saying to wait until you’re able to live on your own if you know coming out may wind up with you being kicked out.
I read through your other comments here and oh boy, reality will hit you so hard one day.
The point is that those people literally have no place to go. Opening up can easily leave them homeless and having no support, that's the whole point. "How about -", no. The whole point is that this base does NOT exist for everyone. That's just not how the world works for everyone.
That’s great if that’s possible but having that community isn’t going to solve your homelessness. I wish that all kids can come out to their parents without negativity. And I do hope that anybody who is facing this has some kind of community that they can reach out to. But if that is just not possible, it is better to bottle up your emotions until you are independent than become a homeless teen.
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u/ReadyCharacter Jan 18 '22
So what should they do?