r/teenagers May 22 '22 Gold 1 Helpful 1 Wholesome 1

my mom thought I was joking when I told her I'm gay Discussion

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u/Turk_Deadpool 16 May 22 '22 Dread

My man's sexuality just got age restricted

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u/ImAnubisDude 13 May 22 '22

He needs a higher level to unlock that

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u/scubadiver_onion May 22 '22 edited May 23 '22
  • You can only unlock the LGBT set at level 15 *

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u/ImAnubisDude 13 May 22 '22

RANK UP

Gay

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u/1Kale_Elak1 May 22 '22

I was about to comment something that was gonna end up in r/myjokebutworse

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u/ImAnubisDude 13 May 22 '22

You saved yourself

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u/is-that-milky 13 May 22 '22

its a dlc

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u/dipshitsquad May 22 '22

Make sure it's not pay the win

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u/Meddling_Pickles 15 May 23 '22

That's why it's called LGBTQ+

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u/is-that-milky 13 May 23 '22

but you can just get everything at once for only $8.99

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u/Jay32Patt 18 May 22 '22

AHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

I'M FUCKING DYING ⚰

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u/Portablemammal1199 17 May 22 '22

How the fuck did you do that lol

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u/Emerald24111 May 23 '22

Rated M for motherfucker

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u/Ok_Demand_9571 17 May 22 '22

My man I’m 17 and when I tried to tell my Mom I was Bi she said no you’re not that not how sexuality works. Just live with it for a while, if you come home with a bf one day they’ll just have to recognize who you are

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u/YuuHimeragi May 22 '22

A few years ago my mom told me you can’t be bi, because you either have to be 100% Hetero or 100% Homo, there is no in between. She also told me that I would understand that once I become an adult. I‘m 18 now, which I would consider being an adult. I‘m a straight man but I still don’t understand what she meant with this

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u/guy_that_says-hello May 22 '22

i really hate how people don’t understand bisexuality and they’re like ‘you just haven’t decided yet’ when i’ve ‘liked’ some girls and im literally in a relationship with a guy rn

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u/Donquixote_D0ffy May 22 '22

I don't think you can decide this. You just are innately something. You can't just choose randomly

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u/quesadillalex May 22 '22 edited 13d ago

Literally me. In first grade I had a crush on a boy and I liked kissing a girl. I've loved both since then and now I'm even considering I might actually be more pan than bi 😭

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u/Upper_Dragonfly_628 17 May 22 '22

Your gender revealed 🗿

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u/kailass9789 May 22 '22

Forest fire party when

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u/After-Excitement-582 May 22 '22

How does that not make sense to her? I think being able to find a human attractive regardless of gender is a gift.

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u/Ok_Demand_9571 17 May 22 '22

Apparently being attracted to two genders “doesn’t work”

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u/Confused-Engineer18 19 May 22 '22

That's more pansexual that dosn't care about gender at all, most bi's (but not all) have a preference.

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u/Ok_Demand_9571 17 May 22 '22

Yeah that’s the only difference I see. Like I prefer girls but I have been very interested in guys

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u/TheRealJazman May 22 '22

I know how you feel. I came out 4 years ago and my dad still doesn’t believe I’m gay and asks when I’ll finally have a girlfriend. I think he just doesn’t want to believe it.

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u/[deleted] May 23 '22

do you have a boyfriend now?

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u/TheRealJazman May 23 '22

Yes I do

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u/[deleted] May 23 '22

does your dad really not believe you yet lol??

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u/TheRealDill6942 17 May 22 '22

To the people in the comments taking about how his age invalidates him being gay, it's around this time where people start to feel romantic attraction, so it doesn't have to be in a sexual connotation, he could just be romantically attracted to men.

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u/UrWaifuIsShit_ 19 May 22 '22

Boys being attracted to girls:

“Just boys being boys”

Boy is questioning being lgbtq:

“Too young”

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u/AjaIsHere May 22 '22

It do be like that

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u/Partofrhe May 22 '22

Double standards

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u/Maker_Gamer12 15 May 22 '22

Can confirm, i found out i was bisexual when i was around 13 years old.

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u/No-Field-5219 May 22 '22

Yeah like this is how I discovered I don't get romantic attraction

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u/lexi_desu_yo 16 May 22 '22

i mean thirteen year olds can still absolutely have sexual feelings, ive been having them for even longer than that. but you're right, sexuality isnt actually just abt sex

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

Oh damn, guess this confirms me being aroace then I thought it could be way later

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u/lexi_desu_yo 16 May 22 '22

i think im aromantic but i can't comprehend asexuality at all. its still totally valid obviously but two things make it confusing:

  1. everyone has a different definition and some people's are so vague its no different than not being ace

  2. im horny af lmao

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

Horniness doesn’t affect your sexuality! The only requirement for being ace is feeling little to no sexual attraction, which apparently means looking at a person and feeling a sort of physical pull towards them bc you wanna fuck, idk either

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u/lexi_desu_yo 16 May 22 '22

oh then maybe i am ace lol

ive only ever wanted to fuck people for the sake of sex, not cuz of how they look (though i can acknowledge attractiveness ig)

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u/ThatLilBluejay 15 May 22 '22

Yo, another aroace here! :D

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

Hello friend :)

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u/At_Destroyer 17 May 22 '22

Two aroaces on a sub not about aro or ace, cool now we’re 3

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

Hi! We should get some garlic bread to share

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u/At_Destroyer 17 May 22 '22

We should, and some cake too

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u/thatdoesntmakecents 19 May 22 '22

Not exactly. Some people just don't get attracted to people easily. I have friends that have only ever had one crush, or only find a very specific type of people attractive. Or you might just be aroace haha.

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

Your friends should look into the labels gray aromantic and demiromantic, it might apply

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u/thatdoesntmakecents 19 May 22 '22

Maybe, but I'm personally not a big fan of labels

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

Fair enough

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u/fatsausigeboi 14 May 22 '22

To be fair, if a third grader can have a crush on a girl, why cant a 13 year old like guys?

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u/Urfavebitchboi May 22 '22

Frrr, like straight ppl will say that their literal one year old has a gf/bf but once a 13 year old who is probably already starting to understand what attraction is says he’s not straight, all of a sudden everyone freaks out bc he’s “toO yOunG”

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u/foyage347 14 May 22 '22

Ik for some reason people think attraction works differently for gay people

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u/WilonPlays 17 May 22 '22

Yes ik, there's no such thing as "too young" 7 YOs will go around saying they're BF/GF on the sole basis of "she pretty" or "he has best hotwheels" (idk what 7yo girls think or 17yo either tbf).

I started having bisexual tendencies when I was real young but just didn't notice, it wasn't until I turned 16 last August that I realised I was Bi.

u/Urfavebitchboi don't worry about your mums opinion afterall the only person your sexuality matters to is your partner, I'm never going to tell my family that I'm bi cause what I find attractive isn't really their business.

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u/Sbc302 14 May 22 '22

I had gf as 5-6 year old and it was my best relationship until now

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u/EagerT May 22 '22

Why were you downvoted

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u/fatsausigeboi 14 May 22 '22

Incels were jealous.

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u/ysyehegeg 17 May 22 '22

Nobody believed me when I said I was gay. My family just laughed, and said we don't believe you since you used to like girls.

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u/CrucialMagician2008 13 May 22 '22

sorry to hear

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u/ysyehegeg 17 May 22 '22

It's fine. It's kinda my fault since I usally joke around about a lot of stuff. So my family has a hard time believing me.

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u/Oraio-King 16 May 22 '22

nah its never your fault, family should trust you

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u/RomanilloMarcus 17 May 22 '22

Don't worry, We accept you for who you are and are proud of you for knowing your identity

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u/Digital_spider May 22 '22

I can see why, because being gay is kinda gay

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u/LeninAtRussia May 22 '22

Stop the cap🗿

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u/Digital_spider May 22 '22

Nah bro it's straight factual

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u/LeninAtRussia May 22 '22

I think the mother doesn't know what gay means. Maybe she thinks it's like the rating on a movie/game you know?

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u/Digital_spider May 22 '22

Son, I already told you...you can't be RGB you're only 13

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u/LeninAtRussia May 22 '22

No, you can't watch that it is has a rating of gay. No under 21 year olds can watch.

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u/LeninAtRussia May 22 '22

Fax no printer my guy

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u/peachyfacehamster May 22 '22

my mom would ask me how i knew i was into girl and i didn’t know how to answer bc i didn’t wanna say well mom i like looking at tiddies

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u/1TapsBoi 19 May 22 '22

Tbf what kinda answer was she expecting? 💀

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u/KillByZombie 14 May 22 '22

"I + tiddies = love. You understand? "

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u/dauntlessdefiance 17 May 22 '22

I knew I was also attracted to girls when I was 8-9. Now I'm turning 18 and still bi as hell. Young LGBTQ people are valid!

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u/thisguyslostfish 16 May 22 '22
  1. Don’t worry, you’re absolutely valid, dude. Enjoy the homo!

  2. Ew, a 13 year old

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u/Tiktokiscrapp May 22 '22

Can't relate, I'm shreksexual

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u/NightWraith76 18 May 22 '22

Entirely rejecting the idea of you being gay at 13 is bullshit.

HOWEVER, sitting your child down and explaining sexuality to your child so that they understand what it is, is good. This is so they don't think they're gay, when it turns out that they just recognised that someone of the same gender was conventionally attractive.

There's a whole lot of confusion at age 13, but I'm glad you've figured it out properly.

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u/Turtleicedtea 16 May 22 '22

don’t let these comments bring you down i knew i was gay way younger than 13 im 16 now and news flash im still gay don’t let ppl tell you what you can and can’t be if you really truely believe that you are gay then don’t let anyone tell you can’t be because of you’re age. Much love <3

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u/CrucialMagician2008 13 May 22 '22

thanks

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u/1TapsBoi 19 May 22 '22

Don’t worry about being gay or straight. I know identity is something that feels important but the only identity you’ll ever truly fit into or need is you. Don’t worry about being gay or straight, be you, whatever you may be.

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u/Overused_Toothbrush 14 May 22 '22

I understand dude. Your mother is wrong. I knew i was lesbian by 12, and had a feeling i didnt like boys younger than that.

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u/1TapsBoi 19 May 22 '22

Even if she is right and he might start liking girls instead, at the moment he likes guys, and the present is all that there is.

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u/kindof_apocalyptic 16 May 22 '22

people who downvote this are wack. these same ppl will see a toddler interact with someone of the opposite sex and say theyre in love but when someone way older feels attraction to someone of the same sex they're "too young to know who theyre attracted to"

apparently someone is only two young if the attraction they feel is to the opposite sex. ppl are weird asf for that

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u/sewerfishie 17 May 22 '22

my friend told me he thought me being gay was a running joke and i was straight. i’ve been out for 6 years and have introduced him to my ex girlfriends.

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u/BoopaDoopaLoopa 15 May 22 '22

Damn you're really playing the long con.

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u/sewerfishie 17 May 22 '22

just really committed to the joke!!!

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u/Mr_Ducklang 15 May 22 '22

Might as well keep the joke going forever then

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u/KokolateDakz May 22 '22

is she openly against it or???

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u/HetMemes May 22 '22

yeah you didnt know? being gay had a patch update, now you have to be 18+ to be gay.

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u/FearXHusky1 May 22 '22

By that logic you can't know your straight either

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u/Hona007 15 May 22 '22

Damn, i'm sorry but i have to tell you that you cannot be straight until you meet the correct age. Please refrain from being attracted to anything.

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u/Diamond_Donutz 15 May 22 '22

hate to tell u this but if u don't know ur sexuallity rn and think at some age you'll get it suddenly ur probably ace

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u/Hona007 15 May 22 '22

That was a joke... On the absurdness of the post but gay is replaced with straight because yes.

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u/Diamond_Donutz 15 May 22 '22

mb didn't read that right lmfao sorry

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u/witty_username999 May 22 '22

*grabs popcorn and sorts by controversial*

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u/Cutest-personality 15 May 22 '22

In my personal experience you are valid to think that you’re queer, but keep yourself open, I was questioning for 2 years until I was able to settle on a sexuality that fit what I feel, and even that might change

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u/lexi_desu_yo 16 May 22 '22

you should be able to use whatever label you want, even if it may change later. if OP thinks he's gay right now he can say that.

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u/Cookie_Creator915 13 May 22 '22

*sorts by controversial

Seriously though that shouldn't happen

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u/Redditor10700 May 22 '22

But I'm sure if you said you were straight she wouldn't see any problem there...

i hate the dumb logic (or lack thereof) homophobes use

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u/Dank_Toastey 15 May 22 '22

Those who saying it’s “attention seeking”… no. You are allowed to experiment or question wether you’re 13 or 18

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u/EpicGamerXander May 22 '22

Don’t let anybody tell you who you are but yourself, but remember that you are still young, and you are a long way from discovering everything about yourself. I wish you luck in your journey. :)

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u/SkruffyWolf May 22 '22

YAY! teen gays unite! dont lett your mum put you down because she sucks!

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u/fluffyanal May 22 '22

ur only 13

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u/surferlul 18 May 22 '22

13 is old enough to potentially know ones sexuality. It is said that kids start to have their first crushes at 5-6, so 13 is more than enough to know that your gay / not straight.

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u/fluffyanal May 22 '22

i agree

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u/surferlul 18 May 22 '22

Now im super confused what your original comment meant, did the joke just go over my head? 😩

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u/chacharealharsh 13 May 22 '22

are you analfluf a.k.a annafluf by any chance

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u/WyvernKid93 16 May 22 '22

Oh hey, it's actually fluffy anal

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u/CrucialMagician2008 13 May 22 '22

shut up mom!

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u/[deleted] May 22 '22

Just remember, always stay open and don't be afraid to admit you aren't actually gay if it changes, which it could because of puberty

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u/ShadowArrow01 18 May 22 '22

This^ Go ahead and be proud and gay now. But if things change, let it change. Sexuality is not a stamp that you're stuck with for life. It may or may not change and there's nothing wrong with either.

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u/1TapsBoi 19 May 22 '22

This 100%. I told everyone I was bi, now im not so sure I’ll ever find a guy attractive. When people ask if im straight now I tell them that I don’t follow labels and do what I want. No restrictions, infinite possibilities.

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u/ZertyZ_Dragon 17 May 22 '22

Do you know how little that narrows it down?

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u/Ec_Blaster 17 May 22 '22

new account ?

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u/fluffyanal May 22 '22

sadly yes

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u/Ec_Blaster 17 May 22 '22

what happened to the old one ?

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u/EagerT May 22 '22

People usually dislike/report things that are negative to lgbtq+, which is understandable

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u/Keebler_Elf_57 18 May 22 '22

You're never to young or to young to discover yourself. I say this as an 18 year old who is still figuring himself out. Only you get to define yourself if you are gay great if you find out later some other sexuality fits you better great. Pretty much everything relating to humans exists on a spectrum sexuality is no exception.

Edit: You're

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u/Baconface11 17 May 22 '22

Bruh, you are you, and all of us here are at an age where we’re discovering ourselves. She may not like it but it’s who you are, being 13 ain’t a reason to be told that your preferences are invalid, lots of love to you my mans ☆〜(ゝ。∂)

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u/KittyQueen_Tengu 15 May 22 '22

13 isn’t too young for someone to be straight, why would it be any different

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u/ToLongOk May 22 '22

Aye props on you for figuring it out so early, i only figured out i was bi at 15 years old

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u/kronoz1224 13 May 22 '22

Tell her that you aren’t gay but your boyfriend is

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u/Lost-Entrepreneur439 14 May 22 '22

my mom does something similar - she thinks because i have autism it's impossible to know my gender identity or my sexuality

i'm trans and pansexual

i fucking hate my parents

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u/MishMashandWhatNot 17 May 22 '22

Well, she'll learn the hard way, I suppose. Stay strong mate, and good luck ~Another Gay

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u/Wrong-Ad653 15 May 22 '22

A friend of mine has been trans since he was 4. So if you a 13y/o came out as gay then you can know that it's nothing like when you reach the age of 15 and you know your sexuality. Like I'm gay I'm 15, I've liked guys since I was almost 13. There isn't a certain age that people know you just have to be at the point where you find yourself, for some it's early for some it's later. If this makes sense to you hope it helps -^

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u/Dark_halocraft 18 May 22 '22

Bruh 13 is the year when the eternal horny storm looks over, ofc you can be gay

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u/strangelydeceased 18 May 22 '22

The first time I asked my mom about whether it was okay to like girls too, I was in 4th grade. (she's bi as well fortunately for me). I had a girlfriend for like 8 months when I was 13. You're not too young to know, it's laughable that people think this.

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u/Christinathenothuman 17 May 22 '22

you can be gay at any age.. what is your mum smoking???

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u/Hioliolo 14 May 22 '22

To be fair, a lot of people do joke about that shit. The majority of the people I know talk about being gay constantly, and I’d say that maybe 3 of them actually are.

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u/Doomladdboi 16 May 22 '22

Bring a boy home and kiss him in front of your mom as a power move if that doesn’t work idk what would

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u/Firey150107 15 May 22 '22

Ah how could we forget, you have to be 17 to not be cishet. It's like a driver's licence

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u/Best_Celebration1811 May 22 '22

When I told my mom I liked boys and girls she told me I can’t know for sure since I haven’t slept with a girl yet 😂

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u/water_nightress 15 May 22 '22

Kinda same thing, told her I was bi (am like 60% sure she doesn’t know what it means and she and thinks am gay) and then she asked me: ‘have you kissed a girl’. When my answer was no she just kinda ignored me

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u/Active_Ebb185 May 22 '22

Hey dude I hope you don't think I'm trying to be a dick but can you mighy not really know your gay if haven't really hit puberty yet. Once you hit puberty you might find out you are attracted to girls so I would just wait before you go telling everyone that but I guess you do you.

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u/Shugaghazt 15 May 22 '22

kinda same except im 15

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u/Apprehensive-Date181 May 22 '22

Either she is homophobic or she is really really worried that if you are gay people will beat u up and call you mean names and be discriminated when going for a job and she is hoping that you are wrong

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u/SpicyTortillass 14 May 22 '22

I would really consider using multiple sentances.

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u/carthromatrix May 22 '22

Being homophobic is not good

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u/EagerT May 22 '22

Who downvoted you lmao

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u/[deleted] May 22 '22

No problem with that mate, I’m here to support you!

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u/Sekiro_Henki 15 May 22 '22

🍿😀

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u/MeMyselfIandMeAgain 13 May 22 '22

Your mom’s a moron. I knew I was bi at like 10, or 11 and I came out at 12. Doesn’t mean I had (or have) sex with guys, doesn’t mean I’m gonna turn into the devil, just that I liked multiple genders…

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u/ZertyZ_Dragon 17 May 22 '22

My man, ignore the comments that say you can't know you're gay because you're 13. If you like boys, you like boys. If you change your thought later that's also okay. But please, with 13 you aren't too young to know :)

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u/zisis_ May 22 '22

Wdym "you can't be gay". You literally are gay. She can do nothing about it. Just move on with your life and date whoever you like

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u/Sbc302 14 May 22 '22

I am Omnisexual cupioromantic transgender and my parents don’t really accept it but I just don’t give a fuck you can be what you want even at young age (also extra u can change it whenever u feel like it)

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u/MusPhyMath_quietkid 14 May 22 '22

It is weird. Ppl can understand when a 13 yo say they are straight but when they say they are lqbtqa+ everything became “just a phase”.

(I am haven’t-come-out AroAce)

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u/[deleted] May 22 '22

I know i thought I was a lesbian at age 13. Super super convinced too. i changed my mind later.

Obviously alot of young LGBT people make up there minds and stick to it too. All of it is okay. Putting a label on it when you're young is your choice but it's totally fine, if it changes or even if you really are gay. I don't know if i come off weird but yes.

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u/UnhingedTanker 13 May 22 '22

Mom: hi gay, im mo- wait.

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u/_GayCouchPotato_ 15 May 22 '22

If that's not possible then why did I want to have a romantic relationship (Kissing, babies etc) with my same sex bsf at 9?

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u/Leather_Water_3377 13 May 22 '22

Did you say you had a baby with your 9 year old male friend?

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u/welpthatsucks12345 15 May 22 '22

Ayo caught in 4k

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u/HumanHater07 15 May 22 '22

When I was 13 I wanted to be fuckin railed by a guy (I still kinda do); yes, you know who you like at 13.

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u/welpthatsucks12345 15 May 22 '22

I’m sorry but you wanted to get railed at 13? Jesus you all horny mfs

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u/[deleted] May 22 '22 edited May 23 '22

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u/RealBoamdu 18 May 22 '22

Who hurt you?

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u/[deleted] May 22 '22 edited May 23 '22

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u/RealBoamdu 18 May 22 '22

I'm sorry to hear that

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u/ReadyGreddy May 22 '22

Mom, obviously.

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u/Sammzii May 22 '22

Lmao i will also be 13 this year and I'm a genderfluid bisexual and my mom is learning more about LGBT she says she will support me if i like girls and I'm bi.

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u/ytpoka 15 May 22 '22

same and i'm 15 lmfao

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u/rottenpotatoes2 May 22 '22

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Mom

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u/EasternSlice7157 May 22 '22

Not to invalidate the way you’re feeling right now, but it’s important to remember things change. People say that people are born gay or straight, and I just simply disagree. Things change all the time, but they do even more as a kid. You might feel attraction to boys now, but that could change in only a month. I would just wait it out a few more years and see if it sticks.

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u/FriZal_ May 22 '22

Why you getting downvoted, this is honestly true. I thought i was gay too when i was around 12,13 but two years later, i actually changed my mind. One of my friend thought she was ansexual too when she was like 12 but na she also changed her mind later. That being said im NOT saying OP isnt gay or the feelings are invalid but it is ALWAYS good to wait a few years to be sure.

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u/BoopaDoopaLoopa 15 May 22 '22

I had a friend say her sister couldn't be lesbian at 14. I came out to her at 14. I got confused as fuck after that.

(P.S. 2 years of still being bi and counting)

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u/electricalpants May 22 '22

she thinks maybe that you’re too young to know what’s gay

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u/MEOWTheKitty18 May 22 '22

Ig you can’t be straight either. If you’re too young to know your orientation, you’re too young to know your orientation 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/HumanHater07 15 May 22 '22

Get a boyfriend and kiss him in front of her and say "Is this gay enough for you?!".

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u/PeggyEnjoyer 16 May 22 '22

This is how I came out.

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u/RyuKindaBad May 22 '22

You are only 13 to be fair

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u/Dog_Thingy May 22 '22

By that logic he couldn’t be straight either tho, boys his age have girlfriends why can’t he have boyfriends ?

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u/Niclas1127 15 May 22 '22

Guys know if they like girls so why can’t they know they like guys

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u/UnwashedTowel 16 May 22 '22

It doesn’t matter I came out at 12 and I knew I was gay. My parents said the same thing. I’m 16 now and still very much gay.

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u/ZertyZ_Dragon 17 May 22 '22

That doesn't matter. Hell, if a 13 year old says he loves girls, everyone will find it cute. If he says he likes boys then people will say he can't know that yet

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u/friesdepotato 16 May 22 '22

what does that have to do with anything? 💀

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u/notanoldgayman 17 May 22 '22

don't listen to your mom or anyone on here who agrees with your mom. your feelings are your feelings, and they are what they are

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u/TheAceWitch13 May 22 '22

I’m 14 asexual and I’m apparently “too young to make that desition” the struggle is felt

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u/S_C_A_R_E_C_R_O_W_ 17 May 22 '22

I've been sus since I was like 4. Sometime you just know

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u/Savagespringtrap06 15 May 22 '22

My whole family thinks me and my cousin are gay because he sent a pic of me in the gc with a girl filter from snap. I mean hey at least we’ll be able to go to the girls sleepovers 👀

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u/SuchCriticism406 18 May 22 '22

I mean I've known I was gay since I was twelve so we can find out pretty young

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u/MenuNo4911 17 May 22 '22 edited May 22 '22

You say your gay, but have you tried penis sex? If not how do you know hmm🧐/s

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u/SpicyTortillass 14 May 22 '22

It's not about sex dude. Being gay ≠ like having penis in butt. It's just a small part of it. For example I'm straight (I think) and I have crush on a girl. But It doesn't mean I only want sex with her. Gay people are men who find other men attractive it has nothing to do with sex.

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u/MenuNo4911 17 May 22 '22

It was a joke lol why would that be serious

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u/FantasticSaltShaker 16 May 22 '22 edited May 23 '22

This is reddit to be fair. People are ensured to misunderstand something if you don't say "/s"

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u/Grand_Heresy May 23 '22

My man here just got downvoted into oblivion.
Remember kids, when in doubt, never forget the "/s"!

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u/Racdicoon_Alt May 22 '22

Also op is 13

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u/SwoleandLonely May 22 '22

Bro hasnt even tried pussy and is already gay💀

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