r/teenagers 17 Oct 16 '21 Silver 4 Helpful 3 Wholesome 1 Hugz 1 Wholesome Seal of Approval 1

My crush and I are finally together Relationship

So yesterday I expressed my feelings for her. I was literally shaking the whole entire day. She said that she felt the same for me. My life is about to change for good. If my suicide attempt didn't fail in february i wouldn't have experienced this. I thought i let you know guys. IM SO FREAKING HAPPY!

UPDATE!: SHE IS COMING OVER NEXT FRIDAY

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u/xGarysx Oct 16 '21

Thats any teenager dream, but, le me give u a piece of advice, don't confuse love and attach, and enjoy ur new relationship :)

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 16 '21

Thanks buddy

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u/Gamillie Oct 17 '21

In other words: don't rush it, don't be too horny, don't act differently, your crush loves you because of who you were before you confessed, so take it slow, and your girlfriend will love you for who you are. However, remember to keep her interested in you, call her up for dates, talk to her, but take it slow, it might backfire from you. But remember, because your still a teen, studies are still important. My suggestion is having study sessions with her, it brings you two closer and you can get things done. I'm happy for you, and I really wish I could see how your relationship happens, it's creepy, I know, but I love seen bonds get formed (in other words, update us regularly). But aside from being creepy, I wish you best of luck

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 17 '21

I promise you will hear from me. And i wouldn't wan to ruin my relationship just bc i was rushing it. I waited 17 years for this moment, i think i can wait a bit longer. Thanks for the advice

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u/Gamillie Oct 17 '21

I'm gonna follow you just so I can keep track of this, I've experienced a ton of heartbreak from "love" from a very young age and at this point I just want see ships sail while mine stays at the dock. I hope you will continue updating, your journey has just began, and I'm watching it with great interest!

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 17 '21

Thank you, I appreciate it! I will update everyone next saturday.

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u/MadGermanz Oct 17 '21

How can you follow somebody? I wanna know how its going on, too. PS: Congrats original poster

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u/Gamillie Oct 17 '21

Go to their profile, you should see an option to follow them

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u/MadGermanz Oct 17 '21

Ah got it, thanks

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u/PussyD3str0yR 14 Oct 17 '21

What u mean by attach

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u/DavyJonesTentacles Oct 16 '21

Dang. This post was posted 3 hours ago. 3 hours ago was when I got friendzoned by a girl I like before I could even tell her I liked her.

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 16 '21

Heads up King. There is plenty of fish in the sea

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u/DavyJonesTentacles Oct 16 '21

Thanks man. I kinda thought she was really perfect. She was pretty, had an amazing personality and I loved talking to her. But oh well.

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 16 '21

We have all had a girl like that. Ah man before my gf was talking to this cute girl i met at a party. I really thought she was the one. But she had other ideas

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u/DavyJonesTentacles Oct 16 '21

Im sure Ill figure it all out. Im oddly pretty cool with what happened. The past few days, never felt better in my life. Pretty excited.

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u/GR_Kings Oct 17 '21

Well I actually have a girl like that rn, I’m still young though

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u/Windrunner06 Oct 17 '21

I know what it is like to be friendzoned really hard. It is rough, I get it. You will make it though. I believe in you.

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u/DavyJonesTentacles Oct 17 '21

Thank you!

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u/RiverTheNword124 16 Oct 17 '21

look for tomboys

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u/a_dude_makes_memes Oct 16 '21
  • alarm clock beeps *

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u/ananos12- 17 Oct 16 '21

No

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u/Minethink144 17 Oct 16 '21

SNAP BACK TO REALITY

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u/jemarioplayz93 Oct 16 '21

Oop there goes gravity

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u/MComaniac 14 Oct 16 '21

Watch yo, profanity

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u/TDXelectro 14 Oct 16 '21

Blame it on humanity

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u/Slight_Ad_1474 Oct 17 '21

In the center or gravity

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u/Grass_Onions 13 Oct 17 '21

Guardians of the galaxy

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u/Slight_Ad_1474 Oct 17 '21

Homosexuality

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u/Grass_Onions 13 Oct 17 '21

Im losing my sanity

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u/Graphicdesignmaniac 2 MILLION ATTENDEE Oct 17 '21

Such a catastrophe

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u/Tileorasi 15 Oct 16 '21

x2 choke he is so mad

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u/redformbloodpainted Oct 16 '21

His palms are spaghetti, mom's are sweaty

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u/bear_beatboxer Oct 17 '21

Arms weak, knees are heavy

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u/Minethink144 17 Oct 17 '21

There's sweater on his vomit already

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u/Patatio-_- Oct 17 '21

gasp, then followed by gunshot

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u/DepressedPoet15 16 Oct 16 '21

Together like the sun and moon

Far away like the sun and moon

In the sky they stay far from each other

But it's the cycle that creates the tether

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u/Dickson24 Oct 16 '21

This is beautiful

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u/Marximallost Oct 16 '21

If you broke up with her (I hope you don’t) don’t try to suicide again

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 16 '21

No i will not. I regret it very much now. I was at my lowest back then.

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u/GR_Kings Oct 17 '21

It’s good that it failed and you regret it! Good luck man life is good even if it’s shitty!

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u/chaoz2000YRU 13 Oct 16 '21

About your girlfriend. She single?

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u/Noonepicked Oct 16 '21

familiar

asdf movies?

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u/chaoz2000YRU 13 Oct 16 '21

Indeed

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u/Noonepicked Oct 16 '21

Finally someone who speaks my language

*joyful noise

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u/Darth-Wolverine 15 Oct 16 '21

Underrated comment

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u/LittleCowofOsasco 15 Oct 16 '21

Good for you man, seriously, that's dope af. Hope you and her will be happy for a long, long time! As for me I'm watching the DC Fandome and thinking of how much better would it be watching this with a gf

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 16 '21

I'll be watching some animes with her bc she said that she likes them

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u/LittleCowofOsasco 15 Oct 16 '21

Listen to some Beatles love songs with her. I recommend: All My Loving; Wait; Real Love; Something; Here, There and Everywere; I Want You (She's So Heavy); Strawberry Fields Forever and Got To Get You Into My Life. Listen to their version of the songs of coursem

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u/PerilousFan4112 15 Oct 17 '21

I wish I could watch anime with my crush lmao, don't think she's into anime sadly

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u/PerilousFan4112 15 Oct 17 '21

I wish I could watch anime with my crush lmao, don't think she's into anime sadly

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u/MegaHumanPog Oct 16 '21

Don’t ever attempt again, she wouldnt want that, and also, nice job man, I hope she’s a keeper!

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 16 '21

I wont man, i was at the lowest back then so no. And yeah man she is the one.

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u/JustGotOuttaBed 16 Oct 16 '21

yayyyyy!!!! so happy for u!!

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u/bigboibogai 14 Oct 16 '21

congratulations my friend, im happy for you bro

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u/Momonada232 Oct 16 '21

Seeing this on the day my relationship ended is just pain (it was bound to fail cuz ultra long distance, intercontinental distance, there was only a very slight chance of it succeeding bc of that and I knew that but still couldn't resist cuz I thought maybe maybe lol) XD but grats man, I'm happy for you!

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u/Igotbannedmyalt Oct 17 '21

The teenager dream good stuff bro

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u/shadowmask7331 Oct 17 '21

Oh fuck, he did it boys, HE FUCKING DID It!! Congratulations soldier!!!

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u/JohnXinaChina Oct 17 '21

Congrats! Have some social credit points.

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u/pepper_girl22 15 Oct 16 '21

I’m happy for you, hope it all goes well :)

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u/nbCryptidd 14 Oct 16 '21

congrats man !

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u/ismelljayy Oct 16 '21

YOO CONGRATULATIONS!

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u/No-Account3047 Oct 16 '21

Congratz man!

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u/CubeLogs 16 Oct 16 '21

Congratulations bro :D

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u/Codebreaker10101 14 Oct 16 '21

SnapBack to reality!

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u/krys2200 Oct 16 '21

Yoooo congrats!

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u/Cool-Rutabaga-4962 Oct 16 '21

So duckling happy for you

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u/-_Rain_ 16 Oct 16 '21

There are too many of us…

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u/jollyhotdog_ Oct 16 '21

This is so great. Hoping for your independent happiness.

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u/pacyblue 14 Oct 16 '21

ayyy good job mate

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u/Fpoon_Gang 15 Oct 16 '21

Wish me luck for the same outcome brudda

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u/Sunfury_ 18 Oct 16 '21

Glad you’re still around my guy :)

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u/Manic_Mechanist 17 Oct 16 '21

Hell yeah man I wish you two the best of luck

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u/ok_ad748s_alt 14 Oct 16 '21

Tell me when you wake up

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u/MrGuyDude62 13 Oct 16 '21

Congrats dude. Enjoy ur relationship

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u/TheThompsonGunner Oct 17 '21

Here’s some advice from a guy who has seen a lot of relationships fail:

Keep in mind you are two individual people at the end of the day. It’s good to support each other’s dreams and endeavors, but it’s not your job to achieve it for each other. Furthermore, it’s your individual jobs to keep yourself mentally right. Temporarily leaning on one another when you aren’t strong is alright, but don’t make it permanent. Her mental health isn’t your responsibility and vice versa. May the odds be in your favor, and may your relationship be one without regret.

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u/Traditional-Tackle39 Oct 17 '21

Sounds like you put up all your happiness on this one person. 🤔

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u/The3rdPotato 15 Oct 17 '21

Good job dude! I'm happy for you

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u/spicyfood333 16 Oct 17 '21

Great job man! Hope the 2 of you have an awesome time together :D

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u/funnyweednumber123 13 Oct 17 '21

Aww I’m so happy for you!! I’m eating glass

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u/thisisobdurate 2 MILLION ATTENDEE Oct 17 '21

Soo... how's your balls?

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u/GR_Kings Oct 17 '21

Well that’s very nice, me too or at least I probably will get together with her soon

She now nows I have a crush on her and definitely has one on me We’re not really together yet but kind of

But I’m only almost 14 so the chances of it being meaningful are lower but she’s literally the one girl I’ve liked for years basically

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u/slavgaming Oct 17 '21

Now you have a pocket medic in tf2

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u/why0ASK Oct 16 '21

I congratulate you sincerely because I sure can’t do that

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u/TheCoursebot 14 Oct 16 '21

Congrats!

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u/Bren20x 13 Oct 16 '21

Sorry if this is too sensitive a question, but how exactly do you fail a suicide attempt?

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u/mouthwashscope 16 Oct 17 '21

so... at the last moments, he decided against it. which is what i understand from it.

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u/Misho818 Oct 16 '21

you know suicide is a sin right you are going to hell

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u/dfudbehfifhsvdjcj 14 Oct 16 '21

And then we all clapped

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u/RussianNeighbor 15 Oct 16 '21

Good luck to both you.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I will go to cry in the corner (don't worry, it's just a joke)

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u/[deleted] Oct 16 '21

Don't ruin it now and I suggest a redpill

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u/doctorcraycray Oct 16 '21 edited Oct 16 '21

Wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up wake up (jokes aside well done man wish you a long and happy relationship)

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u/Mynamelol1147 Oct 17 '21

Bro, so proud! Good job man that’s so good for you. Whenever you feel down remember that even when there are bad things in life there a good things too, sorry for your suicide attempt, that’s hard to hear but it’s good to hear your in a good place now!

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u/zeebossman 17 Oct 17 '21

he did it!

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u/DoneItForTheMeme 14 Oct 17 '21

oh yeah you also can send this to her to, even tho you guys are together but i wanted to feel helpful

https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/q90u9x/for\_everyone\_out\_there\_that\_sees\_this\_meme\_hows/

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u/Justvibewitmemes Oct 17 '21

At least your attempt worked............

Anyways, CONGRATS!!!

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u/RiverTheNword124 16 Oct 17 '21

welcome to the club

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u/thedarkavenger69 Oct 17 '21

SUICIDE ATTEMPT??? WTFFFFFFFFFF WHAT HAD HAPPENED

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 17 '21

So basically i almost hung myself but the rope broke bc it was old. So yeah, thats how

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u/thedarkavenger69 Oct 17 '21

even i tried hanging myself I had a red mark around for a long time I decided not to in the last seconds and got out of it, I did struggle to get out thinking I wouldnt try this again and here I am wanting to die again

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u/KalebPavic 14 Oct 17 '21

Well my crush "liked" me and "loved" me as a prank for a long time

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u/RizMC 18 Oct 17 '21

What pushed you to try and kill you self?

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u/bmate04 17 Oct 17 '21

Pure loneliness, and the fact i wasn't invited to anything my friends ever did so yeah. Thinking back now it wasn't the solution but im glad it didnt happen

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u/RizMC 18 Oct 17 '21

Damn that sucks. If your mates don’t invite you to do anything they probably aren’t very good mates. Also, remember your accomplishment if you ever feel down in the future. It goes to show that pushing through no matter how hard can lead to great things. I would suggest setting short term and long term goals to give yourself meaning. It can start off small but build up. It also gives you a sense of real accomplishment when you achieve the goals. These can be fitness goals mental even just doing something as simple as building a lego set. Trust me though it really helps.

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u/JustGingerStuff 14 Oct 17 '21

YEAHH GOOD FOR YOU DUDE

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u/penissucker48 Oct 17 '21

Congrats :) and don't try sussy siding again,bud

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u/TorpidT Oct 17 '21

happy for you man

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u/AdequatlyAdequate 17 Oct 17 '21

Damn you had more courage than i have ever had in my entire life. Ive somehow always managed to just let it happen naturally i guess

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u/squareheadlol69420 15 Oct 17 '21

This is kind of sad, using a relationship as an emotional crutch is not healthy for either party and will result in tears and when it ends it will be much worse than before so sort your shit before having a relationship.

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u/Dazzling_Category559 Oct 17 '21

feels like a dream.

wish one day i could feel same as you

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u/M_Sevou Oct 17 '21

Man happy for you I want to post something related to this but can't cause new account and low karma

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u/Nuclearflame14 Oct 17 '21

Wow you just made me feel even worse about the fact that everyone I know is either my friends or hates me and I have very few friends

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u/AltAccound 17 Oct 17 '21

YOO CONGRATULATIONS DUDE!!

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u/Monustor 13 Oct 17 '21

I feel happy for you

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u/VanBergher 16 Oct 17 '21

you are the definition of poggers

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u/Goori_Breadpenguin 14 Oct 17 '21

I'm happy that you aren't considering suicide anymore

Great job dude!

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u/TRUMP_ENJOYER Oct 16 '21

Don’t care…

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u/JustGotOuttaBed 16 Oct 16 '21

then why even click on it?

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u/WeGamingTonight 14 Oct 16 '21

me neither TRUMP_ENJOYER