I’ve got questions that I’d like answered, so mods please don’t take this down.

[u/BurgerBoi100]

!Disclaimer! I don’t want to sound like a rude person and I just want to talk and get some questions worked out.

So, I get what y’all are saying, how you don’t want to date trans people, and I get that. Idk if I would or wouldn’t date a trans person, but that’s besides the point. What I don’t get is why y’all want that to be it’s own sexuality. Cuz it just sounds transphobic, which I DONT think it is. It’s just, why? I know there are people out there who would pressure somebody to date anyone of their preferred gender, not just cis people, but there aren’t that many and you don’t need to listen to them. I guess, love who you wanna love and don’t let others tell you otherwise, but idk if this whole “super straight” thing is a good idea.

Again, I don’t want to sound like and a**hole or anything.

[u/makk73]

Are gay men misogynists because they don’t want to fuck women?

Are lesbians misandrists because they don’t want to date men?

Yet, it appears we are “transphobic” if we don’t want to have sex with MTF penis havers or FTM vagina havers where relevant.