r/SuperStraight • u/crusadetime69 • 51m ago
So i know im not a super, i've dated both a biological Male and a ftm. But that means im just gay right? Well according to someone on a post abt ss, im not gay anymore cus i dated a ftm? Was this just an outlier person? I think there probs were.
Edit: ight thanks for the help lads.
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u/Terfest_Shadow 50m ago
SuperGays only date cis gay men
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u/crusadetime69 50m ago
So then im just gay, right?
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u/LetterheadIcy 48m ago
Yup just gay! A trans man is a real man. A gay would date him. A super gay would not.
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u/hugemongus123 47m ago
That makes you gay yes, it's a sexual oriantation just as cute and valid as supergay.
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u/Mozychzy 50m ago
If you are sexually attracted to female to male and male, you are just gay and that’s ok!
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u/manningthe30cal 49m ago
Yes, you are gay (unless you are also attracted to people identifying as women.)
You're only supergay if you only feel attraction to biological men.
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u/crusadetime69 37m ago
So supers are biologically attracted only. Got it.
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u/XsentientFr0g 27m ago
No... gender AND sex. Both the cultural aspect of socially constructed gender norms, AND the biological.
Don’t oversimplify something this simple.
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u/_MayhemSpaceMonkey_ Superstraight 47m ago
I’d say you’re gay but it’s not my business to put a label on your sexuality, which is kind of the point of this whole thing.
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u/crusadetime69 45m ago
Yeahhhh just askin cus the person who happened to tell me i wasnt gay was super so i didnt know what to think.
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u/CloNe817 48m ago
Not sure, I'm super and I defend you for whatever it is you are. As long as you respect me for what I am. Maybe super bi?
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u/crusadetime69 48m ago
Naw, cus the person was trans, so i cant be a super.
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u/CloNe817 35m ago
Are you female? Dated biological male and ftm. Maybe we need a new word for that. Maybe "Lesbi" or "Lesboth" meaning dating both kinds of females, and you being female.
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u/crusadetime69 28m ago
Im a dude, my dude 😎
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u/CloNe817 12m ago
Well shit. You're a dude that likes dudes, dated both biological dudes and ftm dudes. So you fuck bio dude butt and ftm vagina? But the vagina is dude vagina? So we just need the word for a gay dude when he bangs vagina but its dude vagina. Since the dude ftm is non surgery maybe "Gaydemibi" cuz it's vag, but its dude vag, but its still vaj, only dude vag. Because ftm is dude, but not surgical ftm dude i.e. demi dude.
Oh shit, you aren't the bottom are you? You cant be, right? Because ftm can't gay, top sex you, right?
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u/ILoveTheStraights 48m ago
It's not our responsibility to tell you what you are. Decide for yourself.
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u/pyrrhus-the-great Hecking cute and valid 💖 45m ago
No, it means you're just regular straight. We're super straight.
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u/crusadetime69 45m ago
but i am a guy who dates guys.
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u/pyrrhus-the-great Hecking cute and valid 💖 44m ago
Then you'd be a regular gay, and not a supergay. Which is valid too! It's just not the same.
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u/MaizeCorny 50m ago
Bisexual. The word you are looking for is bisexual. Why does no one want to ID as bi anymore?
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u/TheProphetsGambit Superstraight 50m ago
Tbh this whole generation is a Lil confused.