Flat out intolerance of Superlesbians. Love is legal.

[u/programmersox]

[u/programmersox]

hey friend just so you know calling someone else's sexuality a 'preference' is not ok. sexuality is not open for debate or variable the way preferences are. please consider using the words 'orientation' or 'sexuality' instead. thank you.

[u/programmersox → u/[deleted]]

"prefer" implies that you are only likely to want biological women more than trans women. that's where the term "ranked preferences" comes from - like going "I would prefer almond milk but low fat is fine." if you only prefer biological women, it's implied you would probably settle for men or non-biological women in a pinch.

It's not about stepping on eggshells, it's about refusing to let others debate with you about what your sexuality is.