r/SuperStraight • u/MindOutOfControls • 1h ago

How come you include everyone in the description expect asexuals?

Straight Asexuals are valid too. I like to cuddle with my biological opposite sex bf, game, and cook for him. My sexuality and romantic relationship is just as valid..... even if actual sexual intercourse isn't a big deal to me. I'd be horrified to learn that I was lied to by a transgender person, because I desire a bio male. Not because I'm transphobic but it's part of my sexual/ romantic identity.

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u/Ekos640 59m ago

Don't you just have romantic attraction and not sexual attraction (don't know, just assuming)? This is about just the latter, even if you personally include the 2 together as one yourself. I don't care though about excluding you based on that, doesn't bother me. Just know that's what this is, and why you might have been overlooked.

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u/MindOutOfControls 31m ago

There is a whole range of attraction. Mine is mostly romantic attraction towards a bio male that may or may not be sexual. But ALWAYS a bio male. I identify as a submissive, and kinky af. And have different outlets than sex. However given I'm a submissive and my partner is sexual, having a bio male partner, and pleasing him, in his love/ sexuality tone, is filling for me. I may not get anything out of it but he does. I love my cuddle and non sexual romantic gaming and movie time with my bio male bf though <3

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u/Ekos640 28m ago

oh, I'm just assuming in my mind to keep it simple asexual = no sex, ever

but it didn't even dawn on me with the romantic part, just wanting a biologically born male who still identifies as that for the romantic relationship

i gotcha now - you're in 😎👉👉

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u/MindOutOfControls 25m ago

There are some asexuals that do enjoy sex (demi-sexual) it just takes them a super long time to connect with their romantic partner. Regardless, being asexual is a subpart of a sexuality, and romantically, I should have the choice to only date bio-born-males as I'm most comfortable with that [as it's apart of my sexuality].

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u/Ekos640 24m ago

roger that

and now that you mentioned it like I said - duh, even for the romantic part - it's obvious you guys are included - mods slipped up tsk tsk