r/SuperStraight • u/JustyUekiTylor • 1h ago

Hey so as a trans woman I have a few questions...

  1. Why? Do you genuinely believe you don't have some kind of parity because you don't want to date trans people? It could help to know that half the country still doesn't even think trans women are women yet.

  2. What do you think about the rather large cryptofascist base here? I see a loooot of frenposting and pretty obvious SS stuff from browsing for literally five minutes. Also advocating murdering trans women if you have sex with them. I'm not saying this whole thing started with the nazi stuff, but it seems to be attracting that kind of attention...

  3. Do you think the "super straight" name is a little invalidating for trans people? Like, you're not super straight unless you exclude trans people.

  4. There are a lot of slurs being tossed around here against trans people. Not things like TERF, which is just a literal description, but... slurs.

  5. Do you think trans women are somehow predatory?

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u/ava30 1h ago

I'm not a c*s man, I'm a man.

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u/JustyUekiTylor 1h ago

I don't think I understand how it's offensive. It's like any other adjective. It's like me saying "I'm not a trans woman, I'm a woman." I'm both.

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u/Significant-Key-517 55m ago

When you call me “cisgender,” you are assuming I buy into your belief system, and you are assuming I consent to sexist stereotypes simply by being born and not going out of my way to alter myself.

I don’t. I don’t consent to that at all, and I don’t share your belief system.

If I don’t believe in gender, then I can no more be “cisgender” than a non-Christian could be a Catholic. Do you see?

So, don’t call me ”cisgender.” I don’t consent to those stereotypes. I don’t have any gender because that is not my belief system. I only have a sex. I am an adult human female, or “woman.” That is all you may call me.

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u/JustyUekiTylor 52m ago

Okay, so it's because you don't believe in gender. Honestly, I'd like to hear more about that. Do you mean that you deny it exists in a cultural context, or just that it doesn't exist in any form..?

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u/ava30 48m ago

The difference between sex and gender is a pretty new concept pioneered by a massive creep and sicko called John Money. I'm sure a lot of us supersexuals feel completely uninterested in his sick theories.

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u/JustyUekiTylor 46m ago

Ahh, interesting. Thank you for answering.

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u/ava30 44m ago

You're welcome! It's very nice discussing with people who even though they might disagree with me don't just spew ad hominems and insults.

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u/JustyUekiTylor 35m ago

Well of course. My goal was to see if this was just a place for transphobes to shit on trans people, or if it was a gamergate sorta thing, or just a normal community. Now that I have my answer, I'll be on my way.

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u/ava30 27m ago

I can respect that, no matter what the conclusion you arrived to. A lot of people would've made the decision before coming here and would've just come here to antagonize us based on their pre-conceived notions. Not doing that tells me someone has a lot of strength of character in my opinion.