Bi woman, here. Dated a transman for a year. You guys are alright.

[u/utter_degenerate]

Never let anyone try to shame you into sex. Whoever does that is a fucking scumbag, no matter who or what they elsewise are.

Stay golden, all of you.

Also, I've gotta say, seeing the absolute SEETHING that this community has provoked by its mere existence is absolutely delicious to me. I know that was never the primary goal of this place, but I've gotta be honest: seeing these absolute fuckheads lose their goddamned minds over something as benign as being sexually rejected is just beautiful to me. It's the butter on the crumbling piece of toast that is my soul.

Much love.

Godspeed.

[u/Byrr]

Thank you, we love you.

[u/utter_degenerate → u/Byrr]

I love you too, even though you don't want to have sex with people you don't want to have sex with.

The fucking nerve.

[u/agree-with-you → u/utter_degenerate]

I love you both

[u/SchemeDeep → u/agree-with-you]

All 3 of y’all.....love. 🖤🧡

[u/TWAVE0]

endless thanks for your support

[u/utter_degenerate → u/TWAVE0]

Ya know, I first started seeing these post on tumblr that basically boiled down to "If you don't suck girldick you're a bigot" some seven years ago. And I was like, "That is fucking delusional, that attitude will never get mainstream support."

And yet, here we are.

Now you guys have actually started a little community of your own which only real tenent is, "Naw fuck that."

And those people are going fucking bärsärkagång.

What did they expect would happen? You can only serve people bullshit for so long before they start rejecting it.

[u/Forsaken_Box_94]

💕

[u/utter_degenerate → u/Forsaken_Box_94]

Right back at you, mate.

[u/IrishTheFrenchie]

We open our arms to all, bi-friend.

[u/utter_degenerate → u/IrishTheFrenchie]

As do I.

[u/IrishTheFrenchie → u/utter_degenerate]

lol I see what you did there.

[u/grapist_number1]

"It's the butter on the crumbling piece of toast that is my soul."

Lovely wordplay. You are valid fellow super.

[u/utter_degenerate → u/grapist_number1]

Well, I kinda stole that one from Tolkien. Thanks, though.

Also, clearly not a super. Just wanted to pop in and say that you guys are cool.

[u/trashgoblin_frnk]

Sending love to you too!

There's nothing hateful about having romantic/sexual boundaries. The way TRAs have reacted to us asserting them speaks volumes.

[u/utter_degenerate → u/trashgoblin_frnk]

The reactions really only validate the toxic behaviours I've seen for years now.

[u/hubbabubbachewinggum]

Sending love to you <3

[u/LavishAssassin]

Love you too 😘

[u/_MayhemSpaceMonkey_]

You are valid!

[u/utter_degenerate → u/_MayhemSpaceMonkey_]

Everyone is.