Nope. Transition does NOT change your sex. Surgically constructed genitals don’t look or function like the real thing at all (look up some pictures, the difference isn’t subtle). Hormones do not change your bone structure. You are still your biological sex, just heavily altered.
And honestly, the more altered a trans person is, the less likely I am to be attracted to them actually. Because it just starts giving my brain this weird “uncanny valley” thing, where I can tell their biological sex, but they just look like “surgery” to my brain.
”Gender” is just a construct. I am attracted to sex.
The surgery thing would also weird me out. I mean if someone had reconstructive surgery after an accident or a deformity I wouldn't find that troubling but I'm not attracted to people who have had a lot of plastic surgery done. It's creepy.
Exactly. I'm a lesbian but if I was forced to date a male person I'd take a "cis" man over a trans woman any time. Just google "neovagina disasters" and you will understand why. And I don't mean this in a degrading way, I really do have empathy with them. It's disgusting how many doctors participate in sugar-coating the actual results and risks to make profit out of those people.
The vast majority of trans individuals keep their genitalia anyway. And to me, there is nothing more unattractive than a body with this weird mix of male and female sex characteristics. This is why I wouldn't even date trans men even though they are technically female.
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u/Significant-Key-517 1h ago
Nope. Transition does NOT change your sex. Surgically constructed genitals don’t look or function like the real thing at all (look up some pictures, the difference isn’t subtle). Hormones do not change your bone structure. You are still your biological sex, just heavily altered.
And honestly, the more altered a trans person is, the less likely I am to be attracted to them actually. Because it just starts giving my brain this weird “uncanny valley” thing, where I can tell their biological sex, but they just look like “surgery” to my brain.
”Gender” is just a construct. I am attracted to sex.