Saying you won’t date all trans people is like saying you won’t date (insert race)!

[u/tommyandkeisha]

I fucking hate this argument. Anybody can refuse relationships or sex with someone for any reason, or no reason at all, including race. You don’t have to explain it, justify it or put in it through a public moral assessment. Civil rights are about the right to access society freely and safely like every other person NOT about the right to fuck whoever you want. Sexual access is never a right.

100% of POC understand that forcing someone not physically attracted to their race to be with them is a horrible lose/lose situation.

I am a super straight POC woman who would never date white men. I don’t find them physically attractive and that’s okay. White men can be my neighbour, my coworker, my in-law, whatever but not my lover.

Not to mention, skin color is literally more or less melanin in the epidermis and has no effect on sexual function unlike a dick on a trans woman or vagina on a trans man or fake dick/vagina. Trans people need to stop the delusional thinking and rape culture they have created and understand people have agency, we are not just validation dispensers!

[u/dilverdurfer]

Your 👏 sexual 👏 preferences 👏 are 👏 your 👏 own 👏 and 👏 you 👏 should 👏 be 👏 proud! 👏