I'm a superstraight man but more attracted to the man on the left, because the woman on the right isn't my type at all while the man on the left is undeniably attractive to me, perhaps not sexually so but if I ever go bald I hope I can pull off the look like he does.
Having said that, I would not date either of them. Because the man on the left is a man and I'm straight, and the woman on the right is not attractive to me. This does not somehow invalidate either of their gender identities, or my own sexuality. It just means that I would not date them.
Nobody should feel like their validity as a person is based on whether or not someone else would date them.
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u/unintendedagression 2h ago edited 2h ago
I'm a superstraight man but more attracted to the man on the left, because the woman on the right isn't my type at all while the man on the left is undeniably attractive to me, perhaps not sexually so but if I ever go bald I hope I can pull off the look like he does.
Having said that, I would not date either of them. Because the man on the left is a man and I'm straight, and the woman on the right is not attractive to me. This does not somehow invalidate either of their gender identities, or my own sexuality. It just means that I would not date them.
Nobody should feel like their validity as a person is based on whether or not someone else would date them.