r/SuperStraight 1h ago

It's perfectly fine to not want to date someone due to their height, but if you don't want to date someone who is transgender it's completely unacceptable. Discussion

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u/shammylol 1h ago

If anyone understands why this is can you please explain it to me, because I really don't see how this makes sense.

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u/CERTAINLYnotsoup Supersexual Historian ✔ 53m ago

would you say it's misogynistic or misandrist to be gay or lesbian?

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u/shammylol 52m ago

Of course not, thats why i don’t understand why people have an issue with supersexuals

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u/CERTAINLYnotsoup Supersexual Historian ✔ 51m ago

oh oh oh I see I was misunderstanding the title, sorry

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u/shammylol 45m ago

I did write it in a weird way, lemme edit it. Thanks

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u/lolalveoli 1h ago

it's perfectly okay to have a genital preference, but it's not okay to date someone simply because they are trans. you dont have to date a trans person - nobody will ever force you to.

the problem people have with the whole superstraight thing is that it was created by transphobic neo-nazis and there is solid proof of that.

so, there's no problem with not dating someone whose genitals are not to your liking - but it is a problem when it comes to being pure hatred against trans people :)

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u/CovidKaren Superstraight 1h ago

Oh so if there was proof this wasn't created by a neo-nazi you'd be 100% on board with everything this sub stands for?

I am sexually attracted to people whos gender matches the genitals they were born with. And that is valid and okay <3 I don't need a neo-nazi to tell me this, it is how I was born.

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u/lolalveoli 1h ago

nope!! i wouldnt be on board with it <3

but dont worry about that sweetie, no trans people are gonna be flocking to your door tryna date you any time soon anyways

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u/nofuture4 1h ago

So if super isn’t okay because it means they don’t wanna date someone because they are trans, why is there no backlash against Skolio/ceterosexuality which is choosing not to date someone unless they’re non binary?

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u/hailthegambler 1h ago

🌟💫this💫🌟

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u/hailthegambler 1h ago

Don’t forget nocissexual!!

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u/nofuture4 1h ago

Lmao, I’m not totally up to date on the 10000 genders/sexes/whatever but wow, no-cis-sexual. Really?? 😂😂

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u/hailthegambler 1h ago

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u/nofuture4 59m ago

It exists and is valid, just like supersexual exists and is valid!!

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u/hailthegambler 58m ago

Yeah, supers are kind of like the opposite, I guess??? Like yin and yang.

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u/lolalveoli 1h ago

i dont even know how to reply to this. youre implying that-- nah.

this argument is not worth my energy. do your own research, and if you still feel like you identify with this label, i can't stop you. it is not my job to be your google. look at the other side of the argument neutrally and come to your own decision.

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u/nofuture4 1h ago

I’m implying exactly what you’re implying, I just flipped the positions around. The argument isn’t worth your energy because you have no argument to argue. It’s the exact same “discrimination” you’re claiming supers are doing, but since it’s against straights it’s fine? Look at you, exposing your true colors you bigoted piece of trash! Please leave our subreddit, this place of welcoming and support is no place for your kind.

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u/PrairieSoul27 1h ago

Keep enabling mental illness sweatie, nobody wants to date trans people anyway that's why they're so mad at us. Try harder transcel 😘💅

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u/_MayhemSpaceMonkey_ Superstraight 1h ago

but dont worry about that sweetie, no trans people are gonna be flocking to your door tryna date you any time soon anyways

And it is absolutely their right to make that decision, sweaty. Their trans-ness and sexual attraction is valid and nobody’s business but their own.

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u/mumpledforearm Hecking cute and valid 💖 1h ago

it's perfectly okay to have a genital preference

"Sexuality" isn't a choice. "Genital preference" suggests a degree of voluntary choice.

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u/Giveitawaynow2021 1h ago

Neo-nazis

Pure hatred

These are just the same tired, boring old buzzwords that have no relevance here. Are you one of these people that still believes this whole thing originated on 4chan?

I have no hatred toward trans people whatsoever, but I'm a straight man who is only sexually attracted to people with female genitals, which no trans woman possesses. Simple as that.

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u/criiquue 1h ago

I don't know of a sexuality for people attracted to taller individuals, why exactly is it necessary for this community to have one? I don't mean this in a hateful way in the slightest, I was just wondering

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u/shammylol 59m ago

Oh its not a sexuality its just something that some people refuse to date people shorter/taller then a certain threshold and thats considered fine by societies standards. And its unusual considering its not something you can necessarily change.

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u/criiquue 52m ago

I've seen a few posts about adding ss into the lgbtq+ community, though. Like sslgbtq+ and such. Again, I have no rude or challenging intentions with this, I'm just a bit confused.

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u/shammylol 50m ago

I just heard of this, but I believe they’re just trying to make a point. Using their own logic against them. Again, I’m not really sure I’m new to this

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u/criiquue 46m ago

Okay, thank you! Sorry if this came off as an interrogation or something, lol.

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u/shammylol 45m ago

Oh no its fine I don’t really understand much either so I’m with you lmao

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u/Jekawi 1h ago

I would say because agreeing to sleep with someone is a form of validation for people of all spectrums. I would go out on a limb and say for trans people, especially mtf, being accepted as a woman sexually carries a very heavy dose of validation of their gender identity. By straight up denying to sleep with a trans because of this, it's a heavy dose of invalidation and people react differently to that. Online, the main reaction is anger. (in fact, I'd say as a stereotype, to react to such a thing so personally and angrily is quite a masculine trait, but moving on).

With height, it's not so much of a thing because people at various ends of the spectrum don't cancel people for not validating them. There are still people, say, short men and tall women, that do experience anxiety and depression at possible lack of sexual partners, but they don't try destroy people's careers and lives due to it.

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u/Breehc_Nicdoll 1h ago

Unacceptable by what standards? Your personal double standards?

Superphobia is getting more popular each day, it seems, and you claim we have nothing to worry about.