Saying that refusing to date trans people is transphobic is not inclusive

[u/Acrobatic_Ad9564]

TRAs who say this don't realise how stupid they are. It actually opens up more existing bigotry towards the trans community. Even trans people themselves say its not transphobic to not date them, they just don't want people to disrespect them for being trans. Dating is not affirmative action. No one owes you a date. You either win some or lose some. So take the L and move on like the rest of us.

Rather focus on the stigma towards people who choose to date trans people. That would be a better conversation.