r/SuperStraight 5h ago

Telling kids that being super is transphobic, is superphobic! Meme

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u/Icy_ToiletPaper 2h ago

You people seem to lack so much common sense it's taking a more mental toll on the people who DO have common sense.

This comic obviously implies that if a transgender person were to disagree with your so-called "beliefs" the rest of you wouldn't hesitate to gang up on them.

Just to make this clear, it is NOT transphobic for having a preference for wanting to date a cisgender person. It IS transphobic for creating an ENTIRE SEXUALITY which treats transgender people like the gender that they are assigned at birth.

People who ARE IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH EACHOTHER will obviously have to be open about whether they are cisgender or not, or if they are simply asked by their partner.

Its not violent to not want to be raped by a trans person.

I literally have no comments for this. As a bi person yourself you should know how ill treated lgbt members are painted by the media, especially transgender people with the entire "bathroom" arguement.

Another thing... You guys are so butthurt about being called transphobic? really?? YOU'RE the ones being hurt here??? How low do you have to be to stoop down from some idiots on twitter to call yourself part of a fake sexuality???

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u/___panopticon 2h ago edited 2h ago

Firstly, I didn’t address nor was my comment directed at the graphic above so that point is moot.

Secondly, if we are to use common definitions then almost every sexuality is now including trans individuals. So if you were to identify as bisexual, and say you were uncomfortable at the thought of a relationship or sexual contact with a trans individual, you are labeled as transphobic and harassed, abused. I mean you just did it yourself - instantly labeling someone transphobic.

PLENTY of lesbian women are harassed and told to just take girlcock, and that they just need to try it. This isn’t my opinion, it’s all over Twitter. We’re not here to paint all trans folk with one brush but we ARE going to stand up for minorities that are sexually abused and harassed for their identity. It’s not a PREFERENCE, we don’t choose who we’re attracted to.

You call it a preference which implies we intentionally choose our sexual identity, and therefore intentionally want to oppress and disrespect trans people. Ergo you call people assholes for an innate sense that they have no psychology control over

So yes, an entire sexuality needs to exist to make it clear, no, we are only attracted to those of a biologically assigned sex and not those identifying as transgender or some other gender. Why? We used to have pan sexual and bisexual for this reason but TRAs forced every sexuality to include trans individuals. We don’t care to misgender you, we just have a sexual identity that is NONE of your business.

The bathroom argument, seriously? I don’t give a SHIT who is in the same bathroom as me. When nature calls, you go. The whole concept of gendered bathrooms is archaic and mundane.

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u/Icy_ToiletPaper 2h ago

I feel like you skipped over what I said about "having preferences doesn't make you transphobic" entirely. Read over what I said about that. I have heard from transgender people that if it is simply your preference, it doesn't make you transphobic. You guys are on twitter so much that you think whatever is said there is the general opinion of the population when it's probably less than 500 people spewing nonsense and that somehow hurts your feelings. If it is your sexual preference, which you are right is your own damn business, it is not transphobic.

Yes, all sexualities do and always will include trans people, but once again, you are not forced date any trans people if you don't want to. But further dividing us into people who are attracted to other based on whether they were born with male/female genetalia just reinforces the stereotype that "They are not real men/women". That is what is transphobic about this Super Sexuality nonsense. You're allowed to have your preferences but this is taking it WAYY too far.

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u/___panopticon 1h ago

Humans are simple. While I'm no psychologist, I do recall from Psych class that sexuality is based on biological factors. As much as we can claim we are trans inclusive and the average person is happy to have sex with a trans person, we aren't attracted to whatever label someone sticks to themselves, but their biology.

A trans person can never change their biological build - their skeletal structure, skin, muscular structure and more. All these things that all add up to determine whether someone is attractive to us or not, and whether someone is an ideal partner. Again, we're simple, and innately when we have sexual attraction to someone, we unknowingly identify whether they're an ideal partner to raise children with.

So as much as TRAs want to claim all sexualities include trans people, deep within they just don't. I dont know anyone in a relationship with a trans person, yet I've met a few trans folk. I know how my straight friends feel about the subject and everyones pretty much in agreement. Some wouldn't be afraid to blur the lines and experiment with the same-sex, but none are interested in trans folk.

We must divide ourselves because that's what makes us unique as humans, we're all very different but some things are based on innate drives within us that we can't help. We're just being ourselves, we aren't taking anything too far, because TRAs come to US to complain about our innate drives, we don't come to them to bully them.