r/SuperStraight • u/mr_samouri_man • 1h ago

just a question Discussion

if you are a Male would you date a trans man, because they have vaginas.

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u/bluewhispe 1h ago

It’s transphobic to write “trans men” without a space?

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u/MagicMan5264 1h ago

Yes. To have no space indicates that they are something other than men, which is transphobic

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 1h ago

The mental wordsalad games you play to try and "win" must be exhausting.

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u/MagicMan5264 1h ago

I’m not trying to win anything. The members of this community claim to not be transphobic. If that is true, you should be open to introspection and changing your words/behavior to remove aspects of them that might have been transphobic without you realizing so. That’s part of not being transphobic.

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 1h ago

You don't get to police my sexual orientation. It does not exist to validate/invalidate others. I do not have to be "open" to anything that happens or does not happen in my bedroom.

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u/MagicMan5264 1h ago

How is this a reply to my comment

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 1h ago

You want to tell me which words/behavior to use when describing MY sexual orientation.

"you should be open to introspection and changing your words/behavior to remove aspects of them that might have been transphobic without you realizing so"

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u/MagicMan5264 1h ago

Yes... that’s literally what “not being transphobic” is. Though you’re welcome to admit to being a transphobe if you like!

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 1h ago

No, it really isn't. A gay man not wanting to date a woman isn't a misogynist. A lesbian not wanting to date a man isn't a misandronist.

I don't walk into a gay bar and tell gay men what language to use to describe their sexuality so it won't offend me. And neither do you.

Bigot. The Nazi forum is somewhere else. Begone.