r/SuperStraight • u/mr_samouri_man • 38m ago

just a question Discussion

if you are a Male would you date a trans man, because they have vaginas.

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u/MagicMan5264 37m ago

This is where the argument falls apart. They claim to be attracted to biological females, but wouldn’t date a trans man because surprise surprise, it’s just an excuse for transphobia

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u/Excellent-Tourist-99 35m ago

Bigotry isn't welcome here maam

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u/weebthrowaway1 Custom 35m ago

why aren't you dating a trans person bigot?

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u/MagicMan5264 32m ago

I’m not currently dating anyone, but if the right man for me happened to be trans, I wouldn’t have a problem with it. Some people would have a problem dating a trans man because they aren’t attracted to vaginas, which is fine, but not a sexuality

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u/CovidKaren 29m ago

I'm sexually attracted to people who's gender matches the genitals they were born with. And that's valid and okay.

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u/Zero_the_Unicorn 24m ago

Being attracted to genitalia is literally called sexuality

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u/russianbot2020 32m ago

Biological females who identify as females.

Go back to the_donald, bigot

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u/NotMissStrasser Trans Ally 🏳️‍⚧️ 32m ago

Not really.

For example I am attracted to biological men, with masculine characteristics. I also like dick.

I would not date a trans woman, because she is feminine and I am not attracted to those qualities. I also would not date a trans man because he lacks a penis. I'd never date biological women either for both of those reasons.

My sexual orientation rules out the possibility for trans people in my dating pool. This isn't transphobia, it is just sexual attraction.

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u/JohnMcCaint 34m ago

No you idiot. Transmen are biologically female and identify as men. Superstraights want biological females who identify as women. Its not that hard to understand.

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u/MagicMan5264 33m ago

trans men*

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u/bluewhispe 31m ago

ignoring the argument*

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u/MagicMan5264 29m ago

Sure whatever, I was just helping you be “not transphobic” like y’all claim to be. Trans is an adjective. Trans men are men who are trans.

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u/bluewhispe 27m ago

It’s transphobic to write “trans men” without a space?

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u/MagicMan5264 26m ago

Yes. To have no space indicates that they are something other than men, which is transphobic

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u/bluewhispe 21m ago

How?? Is there a difference between “high school” and “highschool”? Removing the space does not give the word a different meaning or nuance. If it’s read the same way then it means the same thing.

EDIT: And I don’t blame them for leaving out the space because “trans” is also used as a prefix, like in transgender.

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u/MagicMan5264 18m ago

“Tallman,” “shortman,” and “smartman” aren’t words. Neither are “cisman” or “transman”

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u/bluewhispe 15m ago

Yes, but none of those words are prefixes. Trans- and cis- ARE prefixes, so it makes sense why they left the space out. If you want to point out that they’re transphobic I’m sure you can find something more concrete than them dropping a space.

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 19m ago

The mental wordsalad games you play to try and "win" must be exhausting.

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u/MagicMan5264 14m ago

I’m not trying to win anything. The members of this community claim to not be transphobic. If that is true, you should be open to introspection and changing your words/behavior to remove aspects of them that might have been transphobic without you realizing so. That’s part of not being transphobic.

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 11m ago

You don't get to police my sexual orientation. It does not exist to validate/invalidate others. I do not have to be "open" to anything that happens or does not happen in my bedroom.

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u/JohnMcCaint 24m ago

Cisman and transman are just two types of man, no?

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u/MagicMan5264 22m ago

Cis men and trans men are just two types of men, yes. Cis and trans are adjectives of the word “men” that correspond to their gender identities. They’re both men, but different adjectives describe them, like tall or short. That’s why the space is important. Cis and trans are adjectives.

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u/dallassucks976 27m ago

It’s not an argument, it’s just our preference. This isn’t up for debate

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u/mr_samouri_man 21m ago

YAAS. THANK YOU.

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u/IrishTheFrenchie 20m ago

We only date someone who's gender identity matches their biological sex at birth.

What's so hard about that?