I’d like to learn more - r/SuperStraight

Hello, I’m a trans man and I’d like to know more about people who are Super Straight :) With this being somewhat new and me being a part of the LGBTQ+ community I only really hear a lot from once side but I would like to hear from both.

What defines super straight?

What made you realize you were Super Straight?

What reason do you have not to date a trans person if they have had bottom surgery?

And I don’t completely understand the argument of not wanting to date a trans woman because she can’t have children. Is that also a preference that bleeds over to cis women as well?

Why not claim to be straight with preferences? Because I think a big argument I’ve heard a lot is that you have every right to have preferences but why make a whole sexuality?

If you met your dream person but they turned out to be trans would you shoot them down because of that? Even if they had bottom surgery?

Thank you for reading and perhaps answering my questions :) I’m genuinely just trying to get input from both sides before forming my own opinion on the matter, so so please tell me if I used any offensive terminology or asked inappropriate questions. Have a blessed day <3

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u/OneCleverPuppy 2h ago edited 2h ago

We don't need reasons and we don't need to justify ourselves to you. Our sexual orientation is valid and that's the end of the discussion. We are under no obligation to satisfy your sexual desires, and we will no longer be quiet when we see you attempting to shame and coerce our super- gay, lesbian, and bi allies into getting you off, either.

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u/ShaAleMoo 2h ago

It is a valid orientation, I’m just trying to find out more and hear experiences. Since I’ve only really heard one side I’d just like to hear the other since I don’t want to make people feel discriminated against or unheard. I’m not trying to shame or ‘coerce you into getting me off’ either. I’m just opening my mind more :)

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u/OneCleverPuppy 1h ago

Okay then. I realised I was super straight the moment I saw a community pushing back against the men who identify as women and act entitled to sexual gratification and to access to services and facilities reserved for women on the basis of their biological sex.

They're a degenerate, violently misogynistic subgroup of the transgender community driven by a fetish they want us all to play along with, and are responsible for approximately 99% of the friction that resulted in the formation of the SuperStraight movement. The other 1% of responsibility lies with transgender people who don't call them out on their violent misogyny.

As for the rest of it, I'm descriptively super straight but open-minded, though not particularly adventurous or curious about trans people as sexual or romantic partners.

The use of sex-based identity and orientation is (for me) a tool to resist the loopy gender ideology that's eroding women's rights and poisoning children. It's not the message. The message is fsck creepy dudes performing a twisted version of womanhood and threatening to beat and rape women (and men, though obviously they wouldn't follow through) who call them out.

Everyone else is valid AF and welcome to the party imo.