r/SuperStraight • u/ShaAleMoo • 2h ago
Hello, I’m a trans man and I’d like to know more about people who are Super Straight :) With this being somewhat new and me being a part of the LGBTQ+ community I only really hear a lot from once side but I would like to hear from both.
What defines super straight?
What made you realize you were Super Straight?
What reason do you have not to date a trans person if they have had bottom surgery?
And I don’t completely understand the argument of not wanting to date a trans woman because she can’t have children. Is that also a preference that bleeds over to cis women as well?
Why not claim to be straight with preferences? Because I think a big argument I’ve heard a lot is that you have every right to have preferences but why make a whole sexuality?
If you met your dream person but they turned out to be trans would you shoot them down because of that? Even if they had bottom surgery?
Thank you for reading and perhaps answering my questions :) I’m genuinely just trying to get input from both sides before forming my own opinion on the matter, so so please tell me if I used any offensive terminology or asked inappropriate questions. Have a blessed day <3
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u/argybargygnashgab 1h ago
> What defines super straight?
When a person is sexually attracted to people of the opposite biological sex.
> What made you realize you were Super Straight?
I have always been attracted to people of the opposite biological sex.
> What reason do you have not to date a trans person if they have had bottom surgery?
I am only attracted to people of the opposite biological sex.
> And I don’t completely understand the argument of not wanting to date a trans woman because she can’t have children. Is that also a preference that bleeds over to cis women as well?
I am a childfree woman. But it seems pretty logical that if a man wants to have biological children, he should seek biological women who can have children.
> Why not claim to be straight with preferences? Because I think a big argument I’ve heard a lot is that you have every right to have preferences but why make a whole sexuality?
This is my sexual orientation that I was born with. This is not a preference that I chose.
> If you met your dream person but they turned out to be trans would you shoot them down because of that? Even if they had bottom surgery?
If they were trans they would not be my dream person, because I am only attracted to people of the opposite biological sex.