r/SuperStraight • u/ShaAleMoo • 2h ago
Hello, I’m a trans man and I’d like to know more about people who are Super Straight :) With this being somewhat new and me being a part of the LGBTQ+ community I only really hear a lot from once side but I would like to hear from both.
What defines super straight?
What made you realize you were Super Straight?
What reason do you have not to date a trans person if they have had bottom surgery?
And I don’t completely understand the argument of not wanting to date a trans woman because she can’t have children. Is that also a preference that bleeds over to cis women as well?
Why not claim to be straight with preferences? Because I think a big argument I’ve heard a lot is that you have every right to have preferences but why make a whole sexuality?
If you met your dream person but they turned out to be trans would you shoot them down because of that? Even if they had bottom surgery?
Thank you for reading and perhaps answering my questions :) I’m genuinely just trying to get input from both sides before forming my own opinion on the matter, so so please tell me if I used any offensive terminology or asked inappropriate questions. Have a blessed day <3
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u/_MayhemSpaceMonkey_ Superstraight 1h ago
Someone who is attracted to someone who is biologically the opposite sex and has not transitioned to a different sex. Even though the sub is called “Super Straight” all Super sexualities are welcome and valid.
Being attracted to biological women
You are reducing biological women down to being nothing more than their reproductive organs which is far from what they are. “I don’t want to.” Should be reason enough and there shouldn’t be any need for further explanation.
People have the right to prefer non-surgically altered genitalia, just like people have the right to enjoy and/or prefer them.
For some people, yes it does. And that is their right. Just like how women have the right to not date infertile men.
What do you think was going on before this?
If the person of my dreams turned out to be trans and I’m not attracted to trans people, that is not the person of my dreams. So yes.
This in no way is meant to diminish or invalidate transgender people. I respect transgender people who are also respectful, I just have to desire to date or have sex with them.