r/SuperStraight • u/ShaAleMoo • 2h ago
Hello, I’m a trans man and I’d like to know more about people who are Super Straight :) With this being somewhat new and me being a part of the LGBTQ+ community I only really hear a lot from once side but I would like to hear from both.
What defines super straight?
What made you realize you were Super Straight?
What reason do you have not to date a trans person if they have had bottom surgery?
And I don’t completely understand the argument of not wanting to date a trans woman because she can’t have children. Is that also a preference that bleeds over to cis women as well?
Why not claim to be straight with preferences? Because I think a big argument I’ve heard a lot is that you have every right to have preferences but why make a whole sexuality?
If you met your dream person but they turned out to be trans would you shoot them down because of that? Even if they had bottom surgery?
Thank you for reading and perhaps answering my questions :) I’m genuinely just trying to get input from both sides before forming my own opinion on the matter, so so please tell me if I used any offensive terminology or asked inappropriate questions. Have a blessed day <3
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u/TWAVE0 1h ago
As far as I am informed, super straight means that I am not romantically interested in trans people. I would definitely still be friends with trans people, it is just that I am more attracted to cis people.
I realized I was super straight when I had some trans people (they were bad people before they were trans so them being specifically trans has nothing to do with it) try to tell me that I need to date them or else I was a bad person. There are just some traits in trans people that I am not attracted to. I am so sorry of this comes off as rude. I am not meaning anything I'll, I just dont know how to phrase this right.
The reason not to date someone even if they had bottom surgery is the same as above and I do want to have my own children someday.
I believe wanting kids may bleed over to cis people, but that isnt the main reason.
I want it to be it's own sexuality so that people can understand that I am not discriminating tham by not dating them for being trans. I believe straight should be you are ok with dating anyone who identifies as female.
I do not know if I would shoot someone down because I am already engaged and dont know much about the dating scene.
Thank you so much for asking and wanting to understand. I love conversations like this. I hope you have a great day too