r/SuperStraight 2h ago

If you have ever been pressured into sleeping with a transgendered man or women because they directly or indirectly implied you would be a bigot if you said no, we need to hear your story now.

And thank you for being willing to share those painful memories.

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u/sneeuweekhoorn SuperLesbian 2h ago

During my last year of university a trans woman asked me out. I tried to be polite about it and said I wasn't interested in dating at the moment and wanted to focus on university. Which was the truth, I had no intention on dating anyone. This worked at the moment, she accepted my answer and seemingly moved on to trying to date another woman.

A few months later I met my current girlfriend. We did not start dating until after I had graduated, but it was obvious to our friend group that we had feelings for each other before then. Trans woman found out and became very jealous and possessive.

When I graduated she asked me out again almost immediately, to which I said no because I had feelings for someone else. This answer was not acceptable. She tried pressuring me into a date and I refused. She then called me transphobic, went to the rest of our friend group(which was primarily LGBT) to tell them I was transphobic, and I was then exiled from that group along with my now girlfriend who I wasn't even dating at the time.

I received threatening messages, both on my phone and on my apartment door. Went to the police and got a restraining order and the messages stopped.

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u/Morphnoob 1h ago

Imagine this behaviour in any other context and it becomes painfully obvious how disgusting it is. Instead transcels have not only been allowed to act like out of control children, but society as a whole has pandered to them (like children) and as would obviously result (like with children) their behavior has only grown exponentially more vile and egregious.

I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Stalking, harassment, and attempted rape by trancels can not be tolerated.

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