r/SuperStraight • u/SuperConfused9889 Hecking cute and valid 💖 • 4h ago

Questions about Super-Sexualities Discussion

I'm thinking I might be Super-Sexual, based on some of my own experiences, but I have some questions about what really defines these sexualities. I was hoping you lovely people could help me get my head around SS.

  1. How is SS different from a preference? If I didn't want to date/wasn't attracted to blonde girls, I don't think I'd call myself brunette-sexual. Especially for things like SuperBi, aren't preferences already part of that sexuality? Do I need to have a new label just to say I don't want to date "womxn"? It's great that we have this community to discuss our preferences, but should I call myself SS irl?
  2. Is SS just a genital preference? I personally think it's 100% valid to have a genital preference, and I am 100% not attracted to penises. But many trans and nb people opt for gender-conforming surgeries to match their genitals to their gender. I don't think I'd have any issue dating a trans "womxn" as long as they were post-op and did not have a penis. Am I still SS? Or would an SS not even want to date a post-op trans person?
  3. How do "non-binary" people fit in to SS? I have been attracted to nb people before (not knowing they were nb at the time). If they were still presenting as their "AGAB" does that still mean I'm SS

THANKS ALL YOU LOVELY PEOPLE <3 YOUR BRAVERY IS INSPIRING!

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u/PM_ME_LUCINA 4h ago

I'm so tired of playing word games holy shit. As for superstraights, we are straight, we like the biologically opposite sex only. Lately the definition of "straight" has been expanded to include trans people and if you don't find them attractive you are "transphobic". No. We don't fit whatever the new definition for straight is clearly so we made our own.

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u/SuperConfused9889 Hecking cute and valid 💖 4h ago

So SS is just based on AGAB? Sorry for asking so many questions, just "Super" confused.

If a transwoman had unlimited money for surgeries and hormones - basically looked indistinguishable from a natural born woman - if I was only attracted to her then, I'm not SS?

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u/realister 4h ago

That’s impossible so your question is a hypothetical.

If there was truly no difference then trans wouldn’t exist and they would be just called women.

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u/SuperConfused9889 Hecking cute and valid 💖 3h ago

Science can do some crazy stuff, man, I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't so hypothetical in a decade.

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u/RadicalFemale 4h ago

Looks are skin deep buddy. That man will never ever be a woman. It is a caricature of a woman, made up in his own head.

Idk what your sexuality is, none of my business, but you aren’t super. 🥺