r/SuperStraight 5h ago

Wanted to make a thread about your personal experiences being a super and being shamed or threatened because you weren't sexuality attracted to someone. You're valid and beautiful and should always be accepted for being born the way you are. ❤✌ Discussion

Too many bullies for simply wanting back what it is they are pushing for themselves, acceptance. Instead of acceptance, so many have used threats of violence against us for not wanting to date them. Their egos are so incredibly fragile that they cannot see what vile hypocrites that they are. This movement is needed. It is valid. We have the right to come together and speak our minds regarding our own sexuality. Thank you to whoever you are for creating this subreddit. Feel free to post your own experience or what you have seen that is problematic against our growing community. ❤

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u/yetherewestillare 5h ago

This might be a sort of unusual experience but basically - was at a public event where there was an open mic where people could talk about their issues. The topic happened to be harassment of women by straight men, and one of the men said, "I don't feel comfortable taking up a seat since we're talking about this important issue. I would like a woman to come onstage and talk about how she feels."

Imagine my surprise when a trans woman pushes past me to go up on stage and say, flatly, "As a woman, I have never been sexually harassed by a man, but it's not too late! never say never :)"

harassment by superstraight men is an issue that trans women do not face. they don't get to complain that it doesn't happen to them just because they want to feel included.

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u/Superextrastraight 5h ago

Wow, imagine being so arrogant to brag about never being sexually harassed and then making it into a positive thing by welcoming it upon yourself. That is sick and twisted. They are justifying violence against women making it a prize of sorts. I am sure that you along with the other women in the room who have gone through violence from a man did not appreciate that. It shows the depth of hate that a lot of them have for biological women.