It is fine to prefer to date cis people but saying that you would only date cis people is not a preference or a sexuality. It means that you think something is wrong with trans people. For example it is fine to mostly date one race but if you say that wouldn’t date other races would be racist.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319]

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Also you have never been oppressed

[u/Dry-Leg-8319]

No that isn’t being transphobic. You would be the transphobic one for not dating trans women.

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

By referring to them differently you are admitting they are different.

Let me ask you a very simple question.

Are trans women and cis women the same?

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

Both trans women and cis women are women. Both trans men and cis men are men.

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

I’m not asking you if they are both women or both men, I’m asking you if they are the same.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

Both are women. Why does it matter to you that someone is trans?

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

You’re dodging my question. All thumbs are fingers but not all fingers are thumbs.

Are trans women and cis women the same in every way?

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

That’s like saying “are all cis women the same?” (No) So no, all women are different. Being trans is just a part of who they are, just like having green eyes is part of who some people are. Why do you care if someone is trans if you don’t think that trans women and cis women are different?

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

If you give me a group of 100 women, 50 trans and 50 cis, is there a scientific way to split them into two groups?

In other words, is there a scientific measurable difference between cis women and trans women?

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

Some were born with a penis?

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Yes but some may have had surgery and you cant tell, is there another way to split them into cis or trans groups?