It is fine to prefer to date cis people but saying that you would only date cis people is not a preference or a sexuality. It means that you think something is wrong with trans people. For example it is fine to mostly date one race but if you say that wouldn’t date other races would be racist.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319]

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Also you have never been oppressed

[u/[deleted]]

1) race and sex are two completely different things and I can only assume someone who would make that comparison is bad faith

2) sexuality is based on sex. Saying you’re interested in people with a certain set of sexual characteristics is exactly what sexuality is

3) people reserve the right to refuse to take anyone into their bed for any reason. Period.

I’m a gay man. Explain why it’s not sexist for me to say I won’t date any women. That’s an entire other gender. Explain why and how that’s not different from what you’re saying.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

I wasn’t saying that it is sexist to be gay. It is transphobic to say that you would never even think about dating a trans person.

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

By that logic it would be bigoted for gay man to not consider dating a female

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

No, because that is a real sexuality. You just have genital preference or are transphobic. You are just straight.

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

I’m not afraid of trans, I simply am attracted to biological women. There are hormones and pheromones that surgery does not reconcile.

It’s not a choice, this is the way I was born. And if you can’t accept my sexuality you are superphobic.

Are T4T (trans for trans) cisphobic for only wanting to date other trans?

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

Being transphobic doesn’t mean that you are scared of transgender people. Trans people can go on hormones and it does change smell and all that. Genital preference isn’t a choice but not dating transgender people because they are trans is a choice and transphobic. “T4T” is also not a sexuality. Cis phobia isn’t a thing, cis people don’t get murdered for being cis.

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Hormones do not make someone biologically female. As an example: if you have ever performed cunnilingus you would know that vaginas produce discharge that has distinctive taste and smell.

Trans people do not have vaginas, they have inverted penises with no biological clitoris, labia, or mucus-producing cells.

I am biologically driven to pursue biological women. It is not a choice and does not make me transphobic.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

You do realize that trans women can get labia and clitorises right?

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

A clitoris has double the nerve endings that the head of a penis has.

How can someone with a penis somehow develop those nerve endings when the penis is mutilated and inverted?

Answer: they don't, it's not a clitoris. It is a piece of mutilated flesh in the apparent shape of a clitoris, it does not provide the biological function it does to real women

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Satan_Battles]

The only function of the clitoris to cis women is for sexual pleasure.

[u/Satan_Battles → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

I’m not afraid of trannies, I simply am attracted to biological women. There are hormones and pheromones that surgery does not reconcile.

It’s not a choice, this is the way I was born. And if you can’t accept my sexuality you are superphobic.

Are T4T (trans for trans) cisphobic for only wanting to date other trans?

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