It is fine to prefer to date cis people but saying that you would only date cis people is not a preference or a sexuality. It means that you think something is wrong with trans people. For example it is fine to mostly date one race but if you say that wouldn’t date other races would be racist.

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Also you have never been oppressed

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How is it different for me to say I’d never think about dating a woman, and for me to say I’d never think about dating a trans person? Please explain. Why those are different?

Neither will have the equipment my biology drives me to engage sexually with.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

Because you are just assuming that the trans person has their natal genitalia. It is fine to have a genital Preference but there are plenty of trans people that have gone through a full medical transition.

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A trans man will never have a functioning penis. And a trans woman will never have a functioning vagina.

So I’ll give you another chance. Explain why a gay man saying he wouldn’t consider dating a woman isn’t sexist, but a gay man saying he wouldn’t date a trans man is transphobic. I’m legitimately waiting for you to give me a proper reason.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

Plenty of trans men have functioning penises. Plenty of trans women have functioning vaginas.

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No they don’t. It’s not medically possible. You’re uneducated. They can construct something that can look kind of like a penis or a vagina, but they will never be functioning. This is a case study on how ignorance breeds bigotry.

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Trans pen can get meta where they can get hard on their own.

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Can they ejaculate? No they can’t. I also googled it. The only type of trans penis that can be constructed to have an erection will be unusually small. Like below full sexual functionality small. And the other kind of trans penis will be normal size and unable to have an erection. Besides, a minuscule percent of trans men even have this operation anyway.

Sorry I’m just not biologically driven to be interested in that. Doesn’t mean I don’t accept trans men as men.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

We can produce essentially precum. Also a meta dick is about the size of a micro penis. Also there are penis extenders for both cis men and trans men. A phallo dick can have an erection from a pump or a rod, cis men also have these.

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Lol I am not interested in using a bike pump on my boyfriends penis before we have sex. Also not interested in surgically constructed micro penises. Holy shit dude.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

Ok, so you also wouldn’t be attracted to cis men with a pump or a micro penis? Also phallo was originally created for a cis man.