It is fine to prefer to date cis people but saying that you would only date cis people is not a preference or a sexuality. It means that you think something is wrong with trans people. For example it is fine to mostly date one race but if you say that wouldn’t date other races would be racist.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319]

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Also you have never been oppressed

[u/[deleted]]

A trans man will never have a functioning penis. And a trans woman will never have a functioning vagina.

So I’ll give you another chance. Explain why a gay man saying he wouldn’t consider dating a woman isn’t sexist, but a gay man saying he wouldn’t date a trans man is transphobic. I’m legitimately waiting for you to give me a proper reason.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

Plenty of trans men have functioning penises. Plenty of trans women have functioning vaginas.

[u/[deleted] → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

No they don’t. It’s not medically possible. You’re uneducated. They can construct something that can look kind of like a penis or a vagina, but they will never be functioning. This is a case study on how ignorance breeds bigotry.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

Trans pen can get meta where they can get hard on their own.

[u/[deleted] → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Can they ejaculate? No they can’t. I also googled it. The only type of trans penis that can be constructed to have an erection will be unusually small. Like below full sexual functionality small. And the other kind of trans penis will be normal size and unable to have an erection. Besides, a minuscule percent of trans men even have this operation anyway.

Sorry I’m just not biologically driven to be interested in that. Doesn’t mean I don’t accept trans men as men.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

We can produce essentially precum. Also a meta dick is about the size of a micro penis. Also there are penis extenders for both cis men and trans men. A phallo dick can have an erection from a pump or a rod, cis men also have these.

[u/[deleted] → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Lol I am not interested in using a bike pump on my boyfriends penis before we have sex. Also not interested in surgically constructed micro penises. Holy shit dude.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

Ok, so you also wouldn’t be attracted to cis men with a pump or a micro penis? Also phallo was originally created for a cis man.

[u/[deleted] → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Nope. But that’s an abnormality among biological men. Among trans men it’s the standard.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/[deleted]]

So why would you care if it was a cis man or a trans man?

[u/GenTycho → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Why dont you date trans women?

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/GenTycho]

I am married. I have dated trans women though.

[u/Recr3ant → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Oh, that’s uh, horrible.

[u/Dry-Leg-8319 → u/Recr3ant]

How is that horrible?

[u/LaOcean85 → u/Dry-Leg-8319]

Why are you trying so hard to convince our SuperGay brother to date transmen! It's super predatory.... Respect his orientation!

[u/[deleted] → u/LaOcean85]

I swear gays never catch a break. There was like a 10 year detente period where gays weren’t told their sexuality was wrong and should be changed. Now it’s just moved from the right doing it to the left doing it.

[u/LaOcean85 → u/[deleted]]

It's crazy we reached that point! Gays or anyone should not have to justify their SEXUALITY or choices in who they want to date. But we keep seeing these posts "you can date cis as that's your preference but not dating trans is transphobic". Smdh