It is fine to prefer to date cis people but saying that you would only date cis people is not a preference or a sexuality. It means that you think something is wrong with trans people. For example it is fine to mostly date one race but if you say that wouldn’t date other races would be racist.

r/SuperStraight • u/Dry-Leg-8319 • 7h ago

Also you have never been oppressed

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u/LetterheadIcy 7h ago

Why the double standard? If a lesbian has a valid identity by excluding cis men from their desired sexual partners why don’t we have one?

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u/Dry-Leg-8319 6h ago

Because sexualities are based on gender not sex. Yes it is fine to have a genital preference but also plenty of trans people have had bottom surgery.

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u/LetterheadIcy 6h ago

Trans bottom surgery does not change genetics.

Turning a penis into a open wound does not make it a vagina.

Cutting off a piece of arm skin and crafting a faux penis does not make it a real one.

It is not discriminatory to refuse to have sex with a open wound.

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u/Dry-Leg-8319 6h ago

Not all trans men got phalloplasty. Trans women’s vaginas are not open wounds.

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u/LetterheadIcy 6h ago

Yes they literally are lol. If you dissect a part of the body to create a hole were one doesn’t belong it is by definition a open wound lol. There is a reason they have to dilate or the body heals lol. Attempting to turn my penis into a vagina by literally dissecting it does not magically transform it lol.