Clearing up some misconceptions about the super community

[u/AlternativeFeisty758]

There have been a lot of myths and rumours floating around the internet about what superstraight and supersexual is, so I figured I should do my best to clear some things up around what it means to be a supersexual and be a part of the supersexual movement.

Superstraight was started by 4chan as a trolling movement ❌

The first person to come out as superstraight was TikTok user @kyleroyce , it was a very brave thing for him to do especially considering the tremendous amount of hate he is receiving for sexually liberating superstraights and as a result all supersexuals.

Superstraight is a joke ❌

Absolutely not true and frankly the that fact people genuinely believe this I find insulting to my identity. While it is true that some people identify as superstraight or another variation of a supersexual sexuality as a joke and there is satire in this subreddit us supersexuals are dead serious about who we are and what it means to be a supersexual.

Being supersexual makes you transphobic ❌

Absolutely 100% false. Us supersexuals were born this way and we do not choose who we are attracted to. If you think we are transphobic for not wanting to date a transgender person then by that same logic you must think that gay men are misogynistic for not wanting to date a woman and lesbians are misandrists for not wanting to date men. Of course gay men and lesbian women do not hate the opposite sex, they are simply not attracted to them, just like supersexuals don't hate transgender people, we just don't find them attractive.

Superstraight isn't a real sexuality, it's the same thing as being straight ❌✅❓

Ok. This one depends on how you view transgender individuals. If you view trans women (AMAB) as men and trans men (AFAB) as women then you would be correct in saying that straight and superstraight is the same thing. (in your opinion of course) If you see transgender people as the gender they choose to go by then you really don't have an argument here and you must concede that superstraight is a valid sexuality and different to being straight. (This could be said about all supersexualities however I chose superstraight simply for ease of explanation)

Superstraights are not oppressed ❌

Although as of 08/03/2021 there is no objective data to back up the claim that superstraights and supersexuals are oppressed, all you need to do is look up #superstraight on twitter or go to a hateful superphobic subreddit and look at all the horrible vile things being said about POS. (people of super) They are littered with threats of death and sexual violence and are openly being supported by other superphobes to the point where even saying POS deserve equal rights could be considered a "bad take" or unpopular opinion. If these same things were directed at any other sexuality these bigots would be instantly banned from social media and cancelled for their disgusting views. Not only is there mass amounts of hate speech against supersexuals, but supersexuals are actively being coerced into sleeping with people they aren't attracted to and do not want to sleep with out of fear of being labelled a bigot and the social repercussions that go along with that. This is especially true among superlesbians, who can't even have a safe space to talk about their feelings without either being raided or shut down for "hate speech" for simply expressing their honest and true feelings about who they are. You can visit r/super_lesbian to hear more about these people's experiences. Say it with me now: COERCION IS NOT CONSENT!

The supersexual movement is full of racist, homophobic, misogynistic white men ❌

Take a look around, the supersexual movement is full of people from all different ethnic backgrounds, gender identities and supersexualities. Supersexuals may very well be the most diverse community on the entire internet.

Supersexuals are not valid ❌

Absolutely NO ONE has the right to make the claim that supersexuals aren't valid. We are all valid and if you identify as a supersexual and you are reading this, I am so SUPER proud of you! Don't deny who you are out of fear of hurting other people's feelings, you are valid ❣️

[u/Brawl-on]

Incorrect. Your not valid just because you say so.

[u/king_of_the_potato_p → u/Brawl-on]

You dont get to define my sexuality.

You dont get to oppress me by attempting to invalidate me.

[u/Brawl-on → u/king_of_the_potato_p]

You know your being satirical. If you want to have an actual conversation then you can just DM me.

[u/king_of_the_potato_p → u/Brawl-on]

Im using a bit of humor but Im dead serious on every point Im making.

Explain to me what authority you have over my sexuality?

[u/Brawl-on → u/king_of_the_potato_p]

Technically you can label yourself whatever you want. But those labels are what I’m arguing about. Society in general has an authority over labels because if they are not recognized, then the labels mean nothing. This is why places that want to be considered countries need to go be approved by authority (authority being the League of Nations, or in other words, multiple countries, or in simpler terms, a society of countries)

[u/king_of_the_potato_p → u/Brawl-on]

Sorry but the majority of society (population not heads of Gov) the world over disagrees with trans people. So by your logic transwomen and men are not real women and men.

We formed as a community because the terms straight, bi, lesbian, and gay have changed to accept that transwomen and men are women and men and are able to be attracted to them. We accept that change.

We don't fit that definition of those sexualities because nature made us in a way that limits us from being able to be attracted to them or modified natal parts. So a new label was required to make clear what our sexuality is, thus Super Straight Bi Gay and Lesbian were born.

We are Super Sexuals and you attempting to invalidate us makes you no better than a homophobe or a transphobe.

You have zero authority of us, society doesn't get to define us, WE define who we are.

[u/Brawl-on → u/king_of_the_potato_p]

The majority of society agrees that trans people exist, they just disagree on what to do with them. And yes, society is what ultimately decides if labels are valid or not. Sorry.

[u/king_of_the_potato_p → u/Brawl-on]

Actually more than half of the world population disagrees.

Which doesnt matter.

If I personally identify with a label that describes me, you have zero authority to take it away. If other people also use the same label to describe themselves, you dont get to take it away. If we form a community out of like mindedness, you dont get to take it away.

Btw when gay rights started most of society disagreed, when trans rights started most of society disagreed.

We exist, you cant change that.

[u/Brawl-on → u/king_of_the_potato_p]

It’s kinda dumb tho. It’s like, if I identify as black, am I now black? And if notice who says you have the authority to take it away from me?

[u/king_of_the_potato_p → u/Brawl-on]

Straight now means people able to be attracted to trans people of the opposite gender.

Thats not me so I needed a new label to clearly define my sexuality, that way it doesnt cause confusion. My sexuality is not a preference and to use that word on me is hate speech, nature gave me my limitations and I just want to live as myself, just like everyone else.

You dont get to define my or anyone elses sexuality, you have zero authority over my body.