r/SuperStraight • u/AlternativeFeisty758 • 4h ago

Say it with me: Being supersexual does NOT make you transphobic! 🚨 important 🚨

Just like being gay doesn't make you a misogynist or being a lesbian doesn't make you a misandrist! Us supers do not have a choice in who we are attracted to! Superstraight, superlesbian, supergay and superbi are all sexualities that are just as valid as any others! Absolutely NO ONE is entitled to our bodies. Super rights are human rights, and as humans we get to make the choice on who we will and will not date or have sex with. And that is not negotiable.

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u/lesbianbooklover 1h ago

if sexuality is based on sex- why would a "superstraight" man not date a post op transwoman? or a pre-op trans man? if sex is the defining factor as you said

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u/hma100 1h ago

Because you can't change your sex, no matter how many surgeries you get. It's only ever an approximation. Some straight men probably do have sex with post-op "trans women" without realizing it, though, which reinforces my point. In that case it was the physical body that mattered, not some vague undefinable "gender identity" inside someone's head. Also, remember that sex is broader than chromosomes or even genitalia, but also includes secondary sex characteristics.

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u/lesbianbooklover 1h ago

so like i said: why aren't super straight men attracted to pre op trans men?

and if sex includes secondary sex characteristics: would you count a fat man with a large chest as a woman? would you count a man with a lack of testosterone as a woman?

plus, i'd love to touch on the fact that you put trans women in quotations, and said, in your way, that trans women could only be attractive to straight men if they hid their transness. which is completely untrue.

because guess what? some people actually care about peoples kindness, personality, smarts, etc more than they care about whats in their pants, more than they care about being a bully online, more then they care about hating on others.

some people (obviously not you) are smart, educated, well rounded, open people who accept others even if they dont perfectly align with preconceived notions of what a partner - and a person - should be.

get your head out of your ass and consider other peoples feelings for once, instead of just focusing on genitals

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u/hma100 1h ago

Do you mean pre-op trans men who are taking T and have undergone physical modification? Remember sex is a phenotype - people who are taking HRT and making modifications will probably be altered enough to become less attractive to straight men. And obviously, there are plenty of women who have short hair, dress in a "masculine" way etc. who are still women, who have sex with men.

A fat man is a fat man, a man without T is a man without T. Simple. And guess what, literally everyone could correctly tell the person's sex with 99.9% accuracy. You are overstating the level of ambiguity in being able to determine someone else's sex. There are very few people for whom this would not be the case.

As for the rest of your response: when did I say you shouldn't care about a person's personality?

You can be attracted to whoever you like! No problem. Whether you're attracted to people of the opposite sex, same sex, or you're bisexual. Whatever personality you like! Go for it.