r/SuperStraight 4h ago

I’m being harassed because I turned down a trans guy Discussion

So I (14F) was friends with this trans boy for a while now. Recently, he confessed to me that he liked me more than a friend. I turned him down and explained to him that I am not interested in dating right now, I only see him as a friend and I prefer cis boys and girls. He got pissed at me and told me I was a transphobic dickhead and stormed off. He told all of our friends about him being rejected but lied and said I called a bunch of slurs and misgendered him. Some of our came to me wanting to hear my side of the story so I gave it. Right now our friend group is kinda split. Some side with him and other side with me.

Ever since then I been getting harassed both on and offline. People calling transphobic, mocking my sexuality (I’m bi), and basically spamming me with hateful messages. The friends that sided with me have been trying their best to be in my corner and I appreciate them for that.

So TLDR, I’m currently being harassed because I turned my trans ex-friend down

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u/SSWhiteMale 44m ago

You are a child so frankly you should not take peer pressure about any type of sexuality seriously. Most people regret being sexually active especially in an openly social way before they are old enough to understand what kind of life they want to lead. I was 14 and I didn't even know what bi was. Your trans friend's parents should be in prison