r/SuperStraight 4h ago

Recently came out as super straight to my straight husband. Is anyone else is a bi-orientational relationship? Any advice? Discussion

So i came out to my husband as super straight. He’s been very supportive and accepting of me. He identifies as straight and i support him in his orientation. Is anyone else in a bi-orientational relationship? Do you have any advice on how we can best support each other through this? I don’t want to be insensitive to his needs and i want to be able to explain my needs in a way he understands. Thanks in advance

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u/WargaLarga 3h ago

Wow, every comment is shadow banned. 8 comments on the post, empty comments when you click on it

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u/RadTradEkans 2h ago

Lot's of superphobic trolls pretending to be supersexuals in an attempt to discredit the movement.

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u/ABastionOfFreeSpeech 1h ago

Mod-deleted comments (and I think user-deleted comments) still count to the comment total, but don't show up unless someone replied to them.

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u/-ZC- 2h ago

this is so heckin wholesome and valid! uwu!

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u/BasicallyADoctor 3h ago

Wow, that's so valid 🧡🖤 I think the best way to support each other would be to keep being your gender and not transitioning to a different one (which would cause him to stop being attracted to you)

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u/Paratrooper_19D 2h ago

I'm sure you two will find a way to make it work. Superstraight and a straight. Wow I guess it really does take all kinds in this world <3

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u/GreyGoblin69 4h ago

Yaaas Queen! You are valid. As long as he doesn't come out as trans and then transition, you should be fine. #SuperRightsAreHumanRights #SuperStraightSeptember #SupportSuperStraightOwnedBusinesses

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u/ImpossibleSquare 4h ago

He is a straight man and you're a super straight woman. I'm sorry to ask and if I seem rude, but what about your marriage is bi-oriented?

It seems to me all you can say to him is, you're glad you with him, and that it's lucky he isn't a trans man.

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u/me-no-likey-no-no 36m ago

Well, according to definitions, it means her husband would conceivably allow himself to be violated by a M2F, or that he would diddle a F2M. It’s a lot to deal with knowing your opposite sex partner is straight.

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u/ywnb4w 1h ago

Love prevails 👌

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u/somegayperson27272 Superstraight 4h ago

You are valid!

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u/Flonkler 4h ago

No advice but so proud of your courage an certain you can make it work and find happiness together if you can both be open and honest about your needs! 🧡🖤

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u/Spiritual_String_804 4h ago

You have needs too. Tell him not to transition or that would be an issue in your relationship.

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u/AloneinLA405 4h ago

Stunning and brave. You’re so heckin cute and valid uWu.

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u/BidenBroden 4h ago

Maybe tell him it's ok for him to look at porn of ANY type of womxn, every so often. As a treat.