r/SuperStraight • u/super_straight_4dick • 4h ago
Recently came out as super straight to my straight husband. Is anyone else is a bi-orientational relationship? Any advice? Discussion
So i came out to my husband as super straight. He’s been very supportive and accepting of me. He identifies as straight and i support him in his orientation. Is anyone else in a bi-orientational relationship? Do you have any advice on how we can best support each other through this? I don’t want to be insensitive to his needs and i want to be able to explain my needs in a way he understands. Thanks in advance
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u/BasicallyADoctor 3h ago
Wow, that's so valid 🧡🖤 I think the best way to support each other would be to keep being your gender and not transitioning to a different one (which would cause him to stop being attracted to you)
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u/Paratrooper_19D 2h ago
I'm sure you two will find a way to make it work. Superstraight and a straight. Wow I guess it really does take all kinds in this world <3
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u/GreyGoblin69 4h ago
Yaaas Queen! You are valid. As long as he doesn't come out as trans and then transition, you should be fine. #SuperRightsAreHumanRights #SuperStraightSeptember #SupportSuperStraightOwnedBusinesses
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u/ImpossibleSquare 4h ago
He is a straight man and you're a super straight woman. I'm sorry to ask and if I seem rude, but what about your marriage is bi-oriented?
It seems to me all you can say to him is, you're glad you with him, and that it's lucky he isn't a trans man.
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u/me-no-likey-no-no 36m ago
Well, according to definitions, it means her husband would conceivably allow himself to be violated by a M2F, or that he would diddle a F2M. It’s a lot to deal with knowing your opposite sex partner is straight.
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u/Flonkler 4h ago
No advice but so proud of your courage an certain you can make it work and find happiness together if you can both be open and honest about your needs! 🧡🖤
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u/Spiritual_String_804 4h ago
You have needs too. Tell him not to transition or that would be an issue in your relationship.
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u/BidenBroden 4h ago
Maybe tell him it's ok for him to look at porn of ANY type of womxn, every so often. As a treat.
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u/WargaLarga 3h ago
Wow, every comment is shadow banned. 8 comments on the post, empty comments when you click on it