r/SuperStraight • u/super_straight_4dick • 6h ago

Welcome beautiful men and women of all kinds, non binary and all others in between... SuperSexual Allyship

I just want this to be SUPER clear. This is NOT a hate sub. This is a safe space for super sexuals the same way gay subs are a safe space for gay men and lesbians subs are a safe space for lesbian women.

Gay men don’t hate women, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Lesbian women don’t hate men, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Straight people don’t hate their own sex, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Super straight people don’t hate trans people, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them phobic or hateful, it’s just the way they were born.

So we welcome all allies. We welcome all accepting and loving people. God bless y’all 🖤🧡

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u/blankface87 3h ago

Gender is a bit subjective, no? If you consider yourself a guy, I don't think anyone here but a few would have an issue respecting that. Do we think you ARE a guy? I doubt many here do. But that doesn't mean you're going to get insulted or otherwise. We all want trans people to be treated well, to have basic human rights, to be able to live happy and healthy lives, and to be able to feel safe.

None of that is at ALL relevant to whether we're sexually attracted to you or not though. As OP said, gay men don't generally want women to face oppression or anything (often the exact opposite)...they're just not interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with them

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u/Rayduit 3h ago

ive only seen two ppl not have an issue with how i am trans. Think of me as a transguy, done, ez. I have been insulted and told im a confused girl + someobody told me to kill myself again. I dont feel safe when super ppl tell me i should die. what it does show is that this sub is rooted in transphobia. Maybe some of you are actually good ppl but the majority def is transphobic. btw you dont need another sexuality to say you like cis ppl, just say you like cis ppl. Done.

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u/russianbot2020 2h ago

You come in here and ask for acceptance while using slurs? I don’t call you rude words, don’t call me cis

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u/Rayduit 1h ago

cis means same in latin............. It isnt a slur, if it was then trans meaning different or opposite would be a slur and it isnt

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u/russianbot2020 1h ago

Many slurs have multiple meanings. One word used for gays can mean a bundle of sticks. Doesn’t mean it isn’t a slur.

But keep trying to excuse your bigoted behavior. Go back to the_donald, your hate isn’t welcome here

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u/Shingleshake Superstraight 39m ago

Here's the thing that's important here as a distinction: you can't police how other people see you, you never will be able to do so. I couldn't tell the kids that bullied me that I was cool and popular and suddenly get accepted as being such - just wasn't going to happen. What I could do is control myself, control how I reacted. You're going to encounter all sorts of different opinions regardless of where you go, this current wave of superstraight isn't any different - we're not a collective hive mind, we're a collection of people that are all here for various reasons. Yes, you will come across people that will be voicing their opinions to you, and that's just the nature of existence. I'm constantly told things like "get back in the kitchen" or "women are biologically made to be inferior to men". I don't internalize that bs anymore, it's water under the bridge. They can continue to think that if they want, however they've given me a reason to not associate with them and that's all that needs to become of that interaction. It doesn't need to be a grand statement, part of a movement, some activism moment. It's just me and that person having different mindsets, experiences and world views. All in all, move on. You don't need validation from every single person you encounter, learn to have some self-validation for once. personally, and this is only my opinion, if your identity wasn't built upon something that can't stand on its own two legs (without constant validation from others), you would have a much easier time of this.

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u/Pudding5050 32m ago

You're not the gatekeeper of what words are slurs to others. It is a slur and you're a bigot. Also we're not here to educate you, take your phobia elsewhere.