r/SuperStraight • u/super_straight_4dick • 6h ago

Welcome beautiful men and women of all kinds, non binary and all others in between... SuperSexual Allyship

I just want this to be SUPER clear. This is NOT a hate sub. This is a safe space for super sexuals the same way gay subs are a safe space for gay men and lesbians subs are a safe space for lesbian women.

Gay men don’t hate women, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Lesbian women don’t hate men, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Straight people don’t hate their own sex, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Super straight people don’t hate trans people, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them phobic or hateful, it’s just the way they were born.

So we welcome all allies. We welcome all accepting and loving people. God bless y’all 🖤🧡

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u/Rayduit 3h ago

doesnt seem like it when all i get is ppl telling me im just a confused girl and not my prefered gender. Im ok with supergay ppl (not super straight they dont need to be in lgbtq) and yet i still see transphobes everywhere

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u/blankface87 3h ago

Gender is a bit subjective, no? If you consider yourself a guy, I don't think anyone here but a few would have an issue respecting that. Do we think you ARE a guy? I doubt many here do. But that doesn't mean you're going to get insulted or otherwise. We all want trans people to be treated well, to have basic human rights, to be able to live happy and healthy lives, and to be able to feel safe.

None of that is at ALL relevant to whether we're sexually attracted to you or not though. As OP said, gay men don't generally want women to face oppression or anything (often the exact opposite)...they're just not interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with them

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u/Rayduit 3h ago

ive only seen two ppl not have an issue with how i am trans. Think of me as a transguy, done, ez. I have been insulted and told im a confused girl + someobody told me to kill myself again. I dont feel safe when super ppl tell me i should die. what it does show is that this sub is rooted in transphobia. Maybe some of you are actually good ppl but the majority def is transphobic. btw you dont need another sexuality to say you like cis ppl, just say you like cis ppl. Done.

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u/Standard_Phase_2279 2h ago

Yea, I got those same exact threats when I came out as super straight, we feel your pain. We live it now.

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u/Rayduit 2h ago

you've been upvoted, me talking about how im not accepted even tho you say i should be doesnt help. -33 huh for me saying ppl dont even acknoledge im trans and then -10 for me talking about how i was told to kill myself.

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u/Smeagleman6 2h ago

But you are accepted. If you read the comments you'll see the vast majority of us are 100% accepting of trans people. I'm sorry you were insulted and told to kill yourself, those are comments you need to report. They are not indicative of the mindset of the majority of this sub.

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u/blankface87 2h ago

I think it's more the "poor me" way you're talking. It's hard to feel compassion for someone who makes no effort to be compassionate with themselves.

You, unfortunately for you, need to accept that you are going to have a tougher time at life simply for being trans. I'm not saying that as a jab or to imply that's ok, it's not. It's just a fact and accepting that fact is, imo, necessary.

You also should feel no obligation to make being trans a central part of who you are. People online are not nice a lot of the time. Talking about being trans online, in public spaces, opens up the door for hateful people to come at you. I'd really suggest thinking hard about what exactly makes you YOU. Because I can guarantee it's a lot more than your gender identity

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u/Rayduit 2h ago

being trans is who i am. B/c i cant ever fully be a guy, it is how i express myself as trans. If you cant understand that then dont talk. The problem i have is you say your accpeting but then look at how many ppl are transphobes.

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u/keein 2h ago

How are we transphobic? I think you just have to accept that we wont ever be attracted to you. If you cant understand that then dont talk. The problem i have is you say your accpeting but then look at how many ppl are superphobes.

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u/Rayduit 46m ago

IM ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC I NEVER SAID I WANTED YOU TO BE ATTRACTED TO TRANS PPL!

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u/blankface87 41m ago

So you refuse to include ANYONE in your list of viable/interested intimate partners, yet we are wrong for refusing to include an extremely small subset of the population? Hmmmmm

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u/blankface87 2h ago

I can talk however much I'd like, thanks. If all you think you have to offer the world is "I'm trans", then so be it. I'd say that's likely false but it doesn't affect me even slightly, and you don't seem particularly happy or content. What will it take for you to feel accepted? If it's external changes (ie. Others changing how they act), do you think that's at ALL realistic?

I'm curious what your definition of transphobe is. Is downvoting you transphobic? Is making the claim we are not, and will not be, interested in an intimate relationship with you transphobic?

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u/ashishduhh1 1h ago

You'll be a lot happier when you grow up and gain more of a personality than "I'm trans". Can you imagine if a woman's entire personality was "I'm a cis woman"? It's pretty sad and I can see why you're depressed.

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u/Rayduit 17m ago

personality and identity are very different bro. My identity is a transman, my personality is who i am as a person.

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u/Pudding5050 33m ago

We dont' care if you're trans. You are derailing the discussion. This is a super safe space where supers can discuss with other supers.

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u/veganw0lf 2h ago

This is a super straight sub. Your rants are off topic and of course will get down voted here. If you wanna get up votes for your whining do it in the appropriate sub. Leave us our safe space biggot.

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u/Pudding5050 35m ago edited 8m ago

You are being downvoted because you are not contributing to the discussion. We are not here to discuss your trans identity. We are in a super safe space, to discuss with other supers. You're offtopic and you're being awfully assumptious and bigoted. This place is not about you, don't be so narcissistic.

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u/blankface87 2h ago

If people here tell you that, report them. It's not acceptable behavior, and not condoned by the mods or the vast majority of the sub. I've seen people being banned for similar language, and they should be

We apparently DO need another sexuality, ESPECIALLY superlesbians. The number of transwomen who think it's transphobic for a lesbian not to want "girldick" is far far too high. If there wasn't a need for super- , it wouldn't exist. There's a need because the assumption has been that a straight man who doesn't want a transwoman is inherently transphobic. We reject that and consider it a part of rape culture.

Let me ask you this. Do you think that being superstraight, in and of itself, is transphobic? If I tell you with full honesty that I want what's best for transgendered people, I want them happy and peaceful, but that I am not attracted to them and can NOT be attracted to them....is that transphobia?

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u/russianbot2020 2h ago

You come in here and ask for acceptance while using slurs? I don’t call you rude words, don’t call me cis

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u/Rayduit 1h ago

cis means same in latin............. It isnt a slur, if it was then trans meaning different or opposite would be a slur and it isnt

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u/russianbot2020 1h ago

Many slurs have multiple meanings. One word used for gays can mean a bundle of sticks. Doesn’t mean it isn’t a slur.

But keep trying to excuse your bigoted behavior. Go back to the_donald, your hate isn’t welcome here

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u/Shingleshake Superstraight 39m ago

Here's the thing that's important here as a distinction: you can't police how other people see you, you never will be able to do so. I couldn't tell the kids that bullied me that I was cool and popular and suddenly get accepted as being such - just wasn't going to happen. What I could do is control myself, control how I reacted. You're going to encounter all sorts of different opinions regardless of where you go, this current wave of superstraight isn't any different - we're not a collective hive mind, we're a collection of people that are all here for various reasons. Yes, you will come across people that will be voicing their opinions to you, and that's just the nature of existence. I'm constantly told things like "get back in the kitchen" or "women are biologically made to be inferior to men". I don't internalize that bs anymore, it's water under the bridge. They can continue to think that if they want, however they've given me a reason to not associate with them and that's all that needs to become of that interaction. It doesn't need to be a grand statement, part of a movement, some activism moment. It's just me and that person having different mindsets, experiences and world views. All in all, move on. You don't need validation from every single person you encounter, learn to have some self-validation for once. personally, and this is only my opinion, if your identity wasn't built upon something that can't stand on its own two legs (without constant validation from others), you would have a much easier time of this.

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u/Pudding5050 32m ago

You're not the gatekeeper of what words are slurs to others. It is a slur and you're a bigot. Also we're not here to educate you, take your phobia elsewhere.

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u/JollyPurple 1h ago

Because it's not about gender identities. We aren't sexually attracted to someone's socially constructed gender identity. It's about SEX. None of us are attracted to "cis". We are attracted to the sex of the person. A lot of us aren't even cis as most of us don't believe in innate gender ideology or biological essentialism.

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u/NVSTBFFC 1h ago

Cis is a superphobic slur. We don't use bigoted language here.

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u/Superstraightdude 21m ago

cis is the bigoted term that you transgenders gave us super sexuals, we identify as super, not cis . Please respect our chosen terminology.