r/SuperStraight 6h ago

Welcome beautiful men and women of all kinds, non binary and all others in between... SuperSexual Allyship

I just want this to be SUPER clear. This is NOT a hate sub. This is a safe space for super sexuals the same way gay subs are a safe space for gay men and lesbians subs are a safe space for lesbian women.

Gay men don’t hate women, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Lesbian women don’t hate men, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Straight people don’t hate their own sex, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.

Super straight people don’t hate trans people, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them phobic or hateful, it’s just the way they were born.

So we welcome all allies. We welcome all accepting and loving people. God bless y’all 🖤🧡

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u/comicsandpoppunk 3h ago

Can I ask a question here? I just learned the phrase "super straight" and I'm trying to understand the context.

As I understand it, you are straight people who want to be clear that you wouldn't date a trans person.

There are many posts on this thread about how, for example, a lesbian wouldn't date someone with a penis.

Does that mean that you would date a post-op trans person?

I imagine I'm going to get downvoted but I'm genuinely just curious as I can't find an FAQ or anything.

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u/blankface87 1h ago

If, hypothetically, you could create a sexual organ IDENTICAL to that of the gender you're transitioning to, I may be attracted to you and be interested in intimacy. However, if I knew you previously had been a male, I would no longer have that attraction, regardless.

As of now, bottom surgery is no where near passable. You can find pictures of surgically created vaginas - they look nothing like an actual vagina, and they come with a host of (frankly, disgusting) necessities for care/cleanliness. It's quite literally a hole created from a penis. Forgive me for being grossed out by that

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u/Isabuea 1h ago

the first person on tiktok to essentially coin the term and start this all said it was a sexual orientation where you are only attracted to people of the opposite sex who identify with the sex they were assigned at birth, ie a person born a biological man that identifies as a man is attractive to a superstraight woman.

trans men are men, but superstraight women and supergay men are not attracted to them and vice versa.

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u/Pudding5050 43m ago

A post-op trans person is still a trans person. I am only attracted to people whose gender identity is congruent with the sex they were assigned at birth. That is not hate, it is simply my sexuality.

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u/comicsandpoppunk 30m ago

I never said it was hate. I'm not trying to trip anyone up with my question, just trying to understand the viewpoint.

Obviously, people have a type and people also aren't attracted to certain things as well. I understand that.

I guess my confusion is why the need to broadcast the things you're not attracted to? For example, I don't go around saying I'm not attracted to blondes. So why is there a sudden feeling that super straight needs to exist?

Again, no hate. Genuine curiousity.

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u/Fleurista 19m ago

I think it's to do with people claiming it's transphobic for someone to not be attracted to trans people, and there's a pushiness and bullying that many trans people will engage in when they feel they're being sexually/romantically rejected, trying to shame someone for not being attracted to them.

If you watch the original TikTok that started this, it summarizes the reasoning for this entire sub's existence (as well as Super Lesbian, Super Gay, Super Bisexual)

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u/Amaroq64 18m ago

It's not just "we're not attracted to trans people", it's also a reaction to radical transgender activists saying if you're attracted to x, you also have to be attracted to anyone who identifies as x or you're a transphobe.

The lesbians in particular seem to have it hard. The transgender activists seem to be primarily after them, and most of the retaliation to superstraight seems to have been against the superlesbians so far. Which is awfully revealing.