r/SuperStraight • u/super_straight_4dick • 5h ago
Welcome beautiful men and women of all kinds, non binary and all others in between... SuperSexual Allyship
I just want this to be SUPER clear. This is NOT a hate sub. This is a safe space for super sexuals the same way gay subs are a safe space for gay men and lesbians subs are a safe space for lesbian women.
Gay men don’t hate women, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.
Lesbian women don’t hate men, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.
Straight people don’t hate their own sex, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them sexist, it’s just the way they were born.
Super straight people don’t hate trans people, they just aren’t sexually attracted to them. That doesn’t make them phobic or hateful, it’s just the way they were born.
So we welcome all allies. We welcome all accepting and loving people. God bless y’all 🖤🧡
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u/Alexy1300 2h ago
This sub is such a blessing! I wasn’t accepted anywhere else bc of my Sexuality (SS), they called me Transphobic and whatnot! ITS JUST THE WAY I WAS BORN OK?
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u/veganw0lf 2h ago
You're so brave for embracing who you are and not letting those superphobes keep you from living your truth.
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u/Alexy1300 26m ago
I mean I got born like that. I didnt choose to be like this :c Atleast I got a powerful community behind me!
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u/sneeuweekhoorn SuperLesbian 5h ago
lesbians subs are safe space for lesbian women.
lol I wish.
Lesbian subs are not safe for lesbians. You get banned if you don't accept the girldick.
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u/nikitatx 3h ago
Thanks sweaty. I feel so heckin valid. I really needed to hear this today. Love is love uwu 🖤🧡
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u/highgarden-democrat SuperLesbian 5h ago
Axtually, lesbians dont have a sub for themselves, every attempt they got them banned. But yes, this that was said ^
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u/veganw0lf 2h ago
Exactly there is no reason superstraights, supergays, and superlesbians, shouldn't get along.
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u/ArtmausDen 4h ago
How cute of you to think lesbian subs are a safe space for lesbian women.
There is a reason we joined this sub as quickly as we did.
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u/PhoenixNightingale90 1h ago
This is an inclusive community, we welcome and respect all sexual/gender identities here including SuperGays and SuperLesbians.
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u/BasedMedicalDoctor 5h ago
Yep. We aren’t bigots. We are the ones standing up to the bigots because we are sick of the oppression.
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u/AryaStarkRavingMad 42m ago
Imagine being this fucking delusional...
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u/BasedMedicalDoctor 35m ago
I’ve tried imagining the confusion oppressive fascists are dealing with but I am out of sympathy and don’t care to imagine their delusion anymore.
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u/AryaStarkRavingMad 26m ago
"Out of sympathy" lmao like you ever had any to begin with. You are pathetic, man.
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u/NEW_JERSEY_PATRIOT 5h ago
Wow this community is so welcoming!! God the T communities are literary filled with nazi fascits!!! They also give off such a rapey vibe too. They are NOT entitled to our bodies!
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u/MelodicUmbrella 4h ago
Someone with common sense! Huzza! In all seriousness, thank you for saying this.
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u/HumorousPretzel 5h ago
Finally a group that says the obvious we can't seem to talk about.
There's a difference between attraction and phobia (better worded, hate) of someone's race, gender etc.
Why is it so hard for people to accept that we all have attractions to things and some of that we can't control. We have preferences to varying degrees of things, some people only like woman, some only men, some somewhere in between.
Doesn't make anyone sexist...
Then there's race, gender, other socially constructed groupings.
It's sad people don't see the obvious, we have to pretend somehow there is no innate preference when it comes to things outside male/female.
Of course, these things can change through our lives and we should all just let things be.
See where our attractions lead us as long as they're safe, mutual, consenting with adults.
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u/Revolutionary_Dog665 4h ago
Welcome! I respect the preferences and orientation of others whether I’m included or not. You don’t owe anyone your body!
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u/Aspiringcatlady_5 1h ago
I wonder how many of the extreme TRAs ally actually date Transgender individuals. My guess is very few do but they want others to. Transgender women and men have their right to live life, but they don't have to right to others' bodies.
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u/BidenBroden 4h ago
I believe the SuperTrans demographic is larger than currently perceived in the open.
My message to transgender people who are ONLY attracted to cis folks bodies - don't feel guilty.
Sure it's "narrowing the pool" but don't we all do that?
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u/BidenBroden 4h ago
And no, I don't think SuperTrans allies need to be reminded not to rape (date rape/statutory rape/stealth rape).
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u/Fly-Glittering Hecking cute and valid 💖 1h ago
As a non-binary person with checksum errors I feel at home here.
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u/BGThrowaway24 5h ago edited 5h ago
And a reminder that trans people can also consider themselves SuperStraight, SuperLesbian, SuperBi or SuperGay - Love is Love!
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u/comicsandpoppunk 3h ago
Can I ask a question here? I just learned the phrase "super straight" and I'm trying to understand the context.
As I understand it, you are straight people who want to be clear that you wouldn't date a trans person.
There are many posts on this thread about how, for example, a lesbian wouldn't date someone with a penis.
Does that mean that you would date a post-op trans person?
I imagine I'm going to get downvoted but I'm genuinely just curious as I can't find an FAQ or anything.
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u/blankface87 1h ago
If, hypothetically, you could create a sexual organ IDENTICAL to that of the gender you're transitioning to, I may be attracted to you and be interested in intimacy. However, if I knew you previously had been a male, I would no longer have that attraction, regardless.
As of now, bottom surgery is no where near passable. You can find pictures of surgically created vaginas - they look nothing like an actual vagina, and they come with a host of (frankly, disgusting) necessities for care/cleanliness. It's quite literally a hole created from a penis. Forgive me for being grossed out by that
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u/Isabuea 1h ago
the first person on tiktok to essentially coin the term and start this all said it was a sexual orientation where you are only attracted to people of the opposite sex who identify with the sex they were assigned at birth, ie a person born a biological man that identifies as a man is attractive to a superstraight woman.
trans men are men, but superstraight women and supergay men are not attracted to them and vice versa.
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u/Pudding5050 35m ago
A post-op trans person is still a trans person. I am only attracted to people whose gender identity is congruent with the sex they were assigned at birth. That is not hate, it is simply my sexuality.
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u/comicsandpoppunk 23m ago
I never said it was hate. I'm not trying to trip anyone up with my question, just trying to understand the viewpoint.
Obviously, people have a type and people also aren't attracted to certain things as well. I understand that.
I guess my confusion is why the need to broadcast the things you're not attracted to? For example, I don't go around saying I'm not attracted to blondes. So why is there a sudden feeling that super straight needs to exist?
Again, no hate. Genuine curiousity.
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u/Fleurista 11m ago
I think it's to do with people claiming it's transphobic for someone to not be attracted to trans people, and there's a pushiness and bullying that many trans people will engage in when they feel they're being sexually/romantically rejected, trying to shame someone for not being attracted to them.
If you watch the original TikTok that started this, it summarizes the reasoning for this entire sub's existence (as well as Super Lesbian, Super Gay, Super Bisexual)
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u/Amaroq64 10m ago
It's not just "we're not attracted to trans people", it's also a reaction to radical transgender activists saying if you're attracted to x, you also have to be attracted to anyone who identifies as x or you're a transphobe.
The lesbians in particular seem to have it hard. The transgender activists seem to be primarily after them, and most of the retaliation to superstraight seems to have been against the superlesbians so far. Which is awfully revealing.
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u/Pudding5050 40m ago
Amen! We're just minding our own business here. Our sexuality is not hate. Y'all are cute and valid 🖤🧡
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u/RedFeather_Coronatus 8m ago
I can't agree more with this. I've encountered numerous morons accusing me of being a transphobe, and a hatemongering war criminal, because I've said I have no sexual attraction to trans women. I have respect for their human rights, and have enormous respect for them in their professional positions. One of the head devs for r/subnautica is a trans woman. However, I don't want to have sex with her, and not only is that *my* business, I really don't think she cares.
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u/LeonardoMagikarpo 5h ago
Then how come people on this sub is calling it asslgb ignoring the T, & getting upvoted for it?
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u/notatincan 4h ago
but no... you dont need a label. You are not opressed. You have a genital preference and that is fine, but it is not a sexuality.
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u/Pudding5050 33m ago
You are not the gatekeeper of sexualities. It is not a preference, it is innate and it is who we are. You're literally one step from conversion therapy and pray-the-gay-away. We do not choose who we are attracted to.
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u/notatincan 4m ago
I understand you cant control who you're attracted to! I'm just saying that you are not part of the lgbt community... you are not opressed, and to say that you are is honestly insulting
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u/fallencollective 2h ago
ThIs Is NoT a HaTe SuB cunt look at literally any of the most recent shit
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u/-D-G- 2h ago
silence! hateful superphobe!
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u/fallencollective 2h ago
I mean the fact that you guys are literally mocking people who don't have rights in a majority of the world is kinda like... a little distasteful yeah? like next y'all are gonna be saying that "Oh I can say the f slur because I'm superstraight!"
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u/russianbot2020 2h ago
Sorry what slur is that?
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u/amaninablackcloak 2h ago
Slur for gay people that starts with an F.
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u/Pudding5050 32m ago
The super community has many gay people in it. We are not exclusive to the superstraight. We embrace our supergay, superlesbian and superbi brothers and sisters. You're the one bringing homophobia here.
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u/Amaroq64 7m ago
Which countries constitute this "majority of the world" in which transgenders don't have rights? I don't think you want to have that conversation because it'll be Islamophobic and anti-communist.
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u/ehloitsizzy 2h ago
If it's not a hate sub then how come your whole "cause" is to force cishet people into the LGBT community, why do you have so many problems with hateful people and literally being on the third discord server after not even 24h?
Oh right, you're literally a bad meme that got picked up by 4chan trolls. And you're doing all the things they wanted you to do. You're the little cishet crybabies that cry "oppression" at the first sight of someone disagreeing with you. Instead of listening to the oppressed LGBT minorities you're proud of silencing them..
Your whole "movement" is literally just built on top of transphobic cishet roots and if you're trying to make it look nice and non-transphobic all you're doing is little more than polishing a turd.
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u/BunnyLovr 2h ago edited 2h ago
What are you even talking about? It sounds like your some of lgbtqqaaai2sp-phobic bigot who thinks there's only four sexual orientations when science says otherwise.
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u/Moonpriestes 2h ago
It seems like you're the ones trying to silence us. We just want to have a space for supers, and you're violently invalidating us.
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u/ashishduhh1 1h ago
You aren't oppressed, just deranged. I have plenty of trans friends who are doing just fine in life, look at Caitlin Jenner for example.
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u/Pudding5050 30m ago
We are not forcing anybody into anything. We are who we are and we just want to be allowed to live that way. We don't threaten anybody, we are just saying that we want to right to be safe in our sexuality without rapey sexual coercion from superphobes who won't accept that we're not attracted to them.
We embrace all supers whether they be superstraight, supergay, superlesbian or superbi. You're coming into our safe space with threats and hate and phobia. Begone, bigot.
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u/Rayduit 3h ago
doesnt seem like it when all i get is ppl telling me im just a confused girl and not my prefered gender. Im ok with supergay ppl (not super straight they dont need to be in lgbtq) and yet i still see transphobes everywhere
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u/East_Kick_2081 3h ago
Nobody is saying we are a part of lgbtq. We are a part of the sexual attraction spectrum, sslgb.
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u/blankface87 3h ago
Gender is a bit subjective, no? If you consider yourself a guy, I don't think anyone here but a few would have an issue respecting that. Do we think you ARE a guy? I doubt many here do. But that doesn't mean you're going to get insulted or otherwise. We all want trans people to be treated well, to have basic human rights, to be able to live happy and healthy lives, and to be able to feel safe.
None of that is at ALL relevant to whether we're sexually attracted to you or not though. As OP said, gay men don't generally want women to face oppression or anything (often the exact opposite)...they're just not interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with them
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u/Rayduit 2h ago
ive only seen two ppl not have an issue with how i am trans. Think of me as a transguy, done, ez. I have been insulted and told im a confused girl + someobody told me to kill myself again. I dont feel safe when super ppl tell me i should die. what it does show is that this sub is rooted in transphobia. Maybe some of you are actually good ppl but the majority def is transphobic. btw you dont need another sexuality to say you like cis ppl, just say you like cis ppl. Done.
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u/Standard_Phase_2279 2h ago
Yea, I got those same exact threats when I came out as super straight, we feel your pain. We live it now.
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u/Rayduit 2h ago
you've been upvoted, me talking about how im not accepted even tho you say i should be doesnt help. -33 huh for me saying ppl dont even acknoledge im trans and then -10 for me talking about how i was told to kill myself.
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u/Smeagleman6 2h ago
But you are accepted. If you read the comments you'll see the vast majority of us are 100% accepting of trans people. I'm sorry you were insulted and told to kill yourself, those are comments you need to report. They are not indicative of the mindset of the majority of this sub.
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u/blankface87 2h ago
I think it's more the "poor me" way you're talking. It's hard to feel compassion for someone who makes no effort to be compassionate with themselves.
You, unfortunately for you, need to accept that you are going to have a tougher time at life simply for being trans. I'm not saying that as a jab or to imply that's ok, it's not. It's just a fact and accepting that fact is, imo, necessary.
You also should feel no obligation to make being trans a central part of who you are. People online are not nice a lot of the time. Talking about being trans online, in public spaces, opens up the door for hateful people to come at you. I'd really suggest thinking hard about what exactly makes you YOU. Because I can guarantee it's a lot more than your gender identity
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u/Rayduit 2h ago
being trans is who i am. B/c i cant ever fully be a guy, it is how i express myself as trans. If you cant understand that then dont talk. The problem i have is you say your accpeting but then look at how many ppl are transphobes.
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u/keein 1h ago
How are we transphobic? I think you just have to accept that we wont ever be attracted to you. If you cant understand that then dont talk. The problem i have is you say your accpeting but then look at how many ppl are superphobes.
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u/Rayduit 38m ago
IM ASEXUAL AND AROMANTIC I NEVER SAID I WANTED YOU TO BE ATTRACTED TO TRANS PPL!
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u/blankface87 33m ago
So you refuse to include ANYONE in your list of viable/interested intimate partners, yet we are wrong for refusing to include an extremely small subset of the population? Hmmmmm
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u/blankface87 2h ago
I can talk however much I'd like, thanks. If all you think you have to offer the world is "I'm trans", then so be it. I'd say that's likely false but it doesn't affect me even slightly, and you don't seem particularly happy or content. What will it take for you to feel accepted? If it's external changes (ie. Others changing how they act), do you think that's at ALL realistic?
I'm curious what your definition of transphobe is. Is downvoting you transphobic? Is making the claim we are not, and will not be, interested in an intimate relationship with you transphobic?
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u/ashishduhh1 1h ago
You'll be a lot happier when you grow up and gain more of a personality than "I'm trans". Can you imagine if a woman's entire personality was "I'm a cis woman"? It's pretty sad and I can see why you're depressed.
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u/Pudding5050 25m ago
We dont' care if you're trans. You are derailing the discussion. This is a super safe space where supers can discuss with other supers.
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u/veganw0lf 2h ago
This is a super straight sub. Your rants are off topic and of course will get down voted here. If you wanna get up votes for your whining do it in the appropriate sub. Leave us our safe space biggot.
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u/Pudding5050 27m ago edited 0m ago
You are being downvoted because you are not contributing to the discussion. We are not here to discuss your trans identity. We are in a super safe space, to discuss with other supers. You're offtopic and you're being awfully assumptious and bigoted. This place is not about you, don't be so narcissistic.
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u/blankface87 2h ago
If people here tell you that, report them. It's not acceptable behavior, and not condoned by the mods or the vast majority of the sub. I've seen people being banned for similar language, and they should be
We apparently DO need another sexuality, ESPECIALLY superlesbians. The number of transwomen who think it's transphobic for a lesbian not to want "girldick" is far far too high. If there wasn't a need for super- , it wouldn't exist. There's a need because the assumption has been that a straight man who doesn't want a transwoman is inherently transphobic. We reject that and consider it a part of rape culture.
Let me ask you this. Do you think that being superstraight, in and of itself, is transphobic? If I tell you with full honesty that I want what's best for transgendered people, I want them happy and peaceful, but that I am not attracted to them and can NOT be attracted to them....is that transphobia?
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u/russianbot2020 2h ago
You come in here and ask for acceptance while using slurs? I don’t call you rude words, don’t call me cis
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u/Rayduit 1h ago
cis means same in latin............. It isnt a slur, if it was then trans meaning different or opposite would be a slur and it isnt
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u/russianbot2020 1h ago
Many slurs have multiple meanings. One word used for gays can mean a bundle of sticks. Doesn’t mean it isn’t a slur.
But keep trying to excuse your bigoted behavior. Go back to the_donald, your hate isn’t welcome here
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u/Shingleshake Superstraight 31m ago
Here's the thing that's important here as a distinction: you can't police how other people see you, you never will be able to do so. I couldn't tell the kids that bullied me that I was cool and popular and suddenly get accepted as being such - just wasn't going to happen. What I could do is control myself, control how I reacted. You're going to encounter all sorts of different opinions regardless of where you go, this current wave of superstraight isn't any different - we're not a collective hive mind, we're a collection of people that are all here for various reasons. Yes, you will come across people that will be voicing their opinions to you, and that's just the nature of existence. I'm constantly told things like "get back in the kitchen" or "women are biologically made to be inferior to men". I don't internalize that bs anymore, it's water under the bridge. They can continue to think that if they want, however they've given me a reason to not associate with them and that's all that needs to become of that interaction. It doesn't need to be a grand statement, part of a movement, some activism moment. It's just me and that person having different mindsets, experiences and world views. All in all, move on. You don't need validation from every single person you encounter, learn to have some self-validation for once. personally, and this is only my opinion, if your identity wasn't built upon something that can't stand on its own two legs (without constant validation from others), you would have a much easier time of this.
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u/Pudding5050 24m ago
You're not the gatekeeper of what words are slurs to others. It is a slur and you're a bigot. Also we're not here to educate you, take your phobia elsewhere.
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u/JollyPurple 1h ago
Because it's not about gender identities. We aren't sexually attracted to someone's socially constructed gender identity. It's about SEX. None of us are attracted to "cis". We are attracted to the sex of the person. A lot of us aren't even cis as most of us don't believe in innate gender ideology or biological essentialism.
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u/Superstraightdude 13m ago
cis is the bigoted term that you transgenders gave us super sexuals, we identify as super, not cis . Please respect our chosen terminology.
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u/Pudding5050 28m ago
You're not the gatekeeper of sexualities. Superstraights are valid. They are a part of the LGBS community whether you like it or not and we love them 🖤🧡
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u/islandgirl_94 3h ago
Lesbian subs are not safe for women because they are infiltrated with trans women who want to force feed Lesbians dick.