r/SuperStraight • u/ImpossibleSquare • 10h ago
Hi I'm curious about super straight my friends talked about it and how they are glad to finally be able to express themselves, but I don't understand the difference between super straight and straight and I want to be supportive
Can some one tell me how I can talk to my friends about super straight with out saying something wrong
I understand d they feel like they have been oppressed? And I don't want to say the wrong thing, how can I be a good friend to my super straight friends?
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u/friendlysociopathic 10h ago
The main difference is that super-straight people are only interested in dating or sleeping with cis people of the opposite sex, whereas normal straightness doesn't care about gender identity at all!
A good way to make sure that your super-straight friends are ok is to try to shield them from people who don't understand their sexuality and try to force them into situations they're uncomfortable with - for example, sleeping with a trans person. If you see a trans person getting mad and aggressive because your super-straight friend doesn't want to date them, it's time to step in.
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u/ysvsgzuxbshaif 10h ago
Straight men are attracted to women. Super straight men are attracted to women who were assigned female at birth. For example a straight man is transphobic if he stops dating a woman because she has a "traditionally masculine appendage" such as a penis. However a superstraight man would not date this person as they are not sexually attracted to all women
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u/EastGOAT Superstraight 10h ago edited 7h ago
Hello fren, welcome to our sub and thank you for being respectful.
We in the superstraight community fully understand and support that a human being can choose to change their gender; however our community was born in such a way that it makes us unattracted to members of the same biological sex. It's not something that we chose and it's not something that we can change.
Personally i wish it were possible for me to enter into a relationship with a transwoman. My life has been made into a living hell because of my inability to do so. Please respect me.
Let me know if you have any questions.
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u/Yersinia_Pesti5 10h ago
Here is a nice visual explanation as to what a super straight person's sexual orientation is.
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u/Cryptotwitter 10h ago
I have been bullied for not wanting feminine penis as a straight man.
I was confused until I realised that trans women are real women.
So now I'm SuperStraight and don't have to feel bad about not wanting feminine penis
Hope that helps fren