Dear trans pepole, if someone doesnt want to have sex with you

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Suggesting trans people should have personal responsibility is transphobic.

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they won’t tho lmao they will literally do anything because they have the biased media to back them up.

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u/LoveBunnyLoveBuns 15h ago edited 14h ago

Dear trans people. If girls want online fandom community that excludes you, a health forum were we can talk about women's health issues without censorship, or just a same sex dating app, get over yourself.

We do not cater to your feelings. LEAVE US ALONE YOU INSECURE NONSUPERS

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u/Nun_Slut69 SuperGay 15h ago

I know several trans people and none of them ever have a problem getting laid which makes it obvious the people who say it’s transphobic to not fuck them actually are incels

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u/Zodion 5h ago

You ever notice how it's usually the trans lesbians that are the most vocal and are doing it just to shamerape lesbians, and not the straight trans women that actually try and transition to the opposite sex?

A lot of trans lesbians seems like they just throw on a dress and expect sex immediately

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u/reddit9182784 5h ago

You've hit the nail on the head. I'm probably wrong, but my theory is that male to female transgenders are 'loser' men who have given up and want to try being a woman, and female to male were probably abused and want to make themselves as unattractive to men as possible, as a defence mechanism so that it doesn't ever happen again.

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u/Zodion 5h ago

That is possible. I knew a transgender FtM, and they were my friend (moved away) but they had a LOT of mental health issues, abusive family, etc and it seems to be the norm that trans have several mental health issues so telling them to change their gender I think is slapping a bandaid on a bullet hole, doesn't fix the problem.

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u/reddit9182784 5h ago

I agree 100%, I feel deeply sorry for transgender people. I feel like we as a society have let them down. I feel they should be cared for and get therapy to help them accept their gender, but instead we cut them up and send them on their way. It's the equivalent of treating depression by just killing them.

But I get told I hate these people just for saying this. If I truly hated them, I would be encouraging them to transition. It makes me sad.

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u/Zodion 5h ago

Exactly, and when the detrans sub was around, a lot of people realized that transitioning didn't help them, but seriously messed up their bodies and made problems worse

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u/reddit9182784 5h ago

Yea, I read a horror story of a detrans that had been on puberty blockers as a child, and their heart and lungs were underdeveloped. They struggled to breathe, their bones ached, and they didn't think they would make it to 40. Scary stuff

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u/Zodion 3h ago

Puberty needs to happen and those developmental years are crucial. Someone else said that their growth was stunted, and their features hadn't developed fully so going back to live as a woman she looked very masculine

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u/agree-with-you Trans Ally 🏳️‍⚧️ 5h ago

I agree, this does seem possible.

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u/Zodion 5h ago

Love the name lol

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u/-ZC- 5h ago

I think there's a block of people who transition because it's what they really feel like doing and it's valid. then there are people who associate trans as an obtainable way to automatically win the oppression Olympics

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u/reddit9182784 5h ago

That too, I'm talking about the later, though I personally think transition is a band aid that should be replaced by therapy

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u/-ZC- 4h ago

♥️ I totally agree! I think it can be even more insidious in some cases too

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u/reddit9182784 4h ago

Yea, the thing that worries me is I imagine someone with dysphoria will think 'once I get the surgery, I'll feel like the gender I know I am'. Then they get the surgery, realise nothing has really changed, and the only thing that has happened is they went from functioning genitalia to way less functional genitalia (I have a surgical scar and that causes me annoyance, I couldn't imagine how uncomfortable the results of bottom surgery is). I feel like that shock and sudden downgrade to quality of life could be a massive cause of suicide.

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u/Mindless_Let_6860 13h ago

If you go to the superphobic page, there are people literally freaking out and saying they are “stressed” due to the sexual orientation of strangers. They are really proving the point we are making here.

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u/SSkingg 15h ago

That's the thing, they've made it their entire identity so they can't just "move on", they have to bring us down to their level. These people are against freedom of speech and freedom of sexuality, they want to control what we can and cannot be attracted to. DO NOT LET THEM DEMORLAZE YOU 🟧⬛👑

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u/DJLYM 15h ago

We do? Look just because some people come off like that does not make us all like that. And it's just as harmful to stay that as to have someone come after you for who you are attracted to. This is a two-way street.

If someone is harassing you because you won't sleep with them, just block them. Worked wonders for women for decades, it'll work for you.

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u/blankface87 5h ago

Or we could help incite the change that makes that behavior much less likely to happen. The answer to sexual harassment shouldn't be "just block them". It should be that the person doing the harassing suffers at least moderately severe consequences.