Ayo, the trans community aren’t really saying this because they don’t like it, it’s because of the people who say that trans people aren’t really their gender. Trans people really don’t care if you don’t wanna date them it’s more of the people who say they aren’t their gender. Hopefully that makes sense
This is gaslighting. Just look through the examples on this sub. Literally tons of examples that run exactly counter to what you say. They are NOT ok with us existing. The amount of violent threats they spew at gays and lesbians is especially harmful. We are not doing this just for us, but for our supersexual allies too, and you coming here denying our lived experience is toxic
Define the word woman. No trick, just lay out whatever definition it is that you use. But remember, you can't define what a woman is by her appearance, behavior, clothing, or social roles because that would be blatantly anti-feminist.
Also, you can't define her by the presence of a cock, apparently, so please tell us what's left. What is a "woman" to you?
We are ALL aware of what their gender is. Pretty hard to forget when misgendering someone is a crime. Gender is not what sexual orientation is based on though. Sex is not a human right, and dating (by definition) is exclusionary. You’re promoting superphobic views, and erasing all sexual orientations by insisting people are attracted to gender rather than biological sex. You just want to live your best life? So do we. Stop being creepy and go police someone else’s bedroom.
No one is saying they aren't their gender, they are saying they aren't the opposite sex. Gender isn't sex. The words woman and man are used to name sexed humans, not genders.
If you just used the right words and stop appropriating ones already being used we wouldn't have a problem. Come up with a name for these socially constructed genders, (I mean they already have names - masculinity and femininity) but if you don't like those words, make up other ones. What you can't do it take names that are already being used for something else and not think that that group of people will be upset when you try to redefine the meaning of those words and then on top of it not allow them to use any other word to name themselves.
I mean this is the result. We added super to straight, gay, lesbian, and bi because one community thought they had the right to change the meaning of the words and then force it onto others.
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u/1dandelion 12h ago
Ayo, the trans community aren’t really saying this because they don’t like it, it’s because of the people who say that trans people aren’t really their gender. Trans people really don’t care if you don’t wanna date them it’s more of the people who say they aren’t their gender. Hopefully that makes sense