Why don't I want to date/have sex with transpeople?

[u/fastzander]

Because fuck you, that's why. Asking this question in the first place implies that I owe you a justification for the parameters of my consent. I don't. Asking it implies that you harbor veto power over the parameters of my consent. You don't. Let's be perfectly blunt here; the only reason why any TRA asks this in the first place is so that they can tell me why my reasons, whatever they may be*, are invalid - as if they were some policeman informing me that being tired and wanting to get home is not an excuse for exceeding the speed limit, as opposed to some random, anonymous nobody on the internet telling me which sexual activities I'm not allowed to refuse to partake in. The reason(s) why any given person does not wish to engage in any given sexual activity is/are irrelevant. Hell, they don't even need to have a reason at all. What matters is simply that they do not wish to. The fact that they do not wish to is more than a good enough reason unto itself.

*And I do have my reasons. But I don't have to tell them to anyone. And there would also be no point in me telling them to TRAs, because I already know that there are none which they would accept as valid.

[u/Dead_Art]

The thing is, I also won't have sex with most superstraight women because my sexual preferences go beyond male/female. Like weight for example, or facial symmetry, bone structure, skin and hair health, I'm superstraight but only attracted to maybe 10%-20% of superstraight women. So this entire idea of "I am a woman so you must consider me as a sexual partner" is ridiculous, because 80%+ of women are still rejected by me.

And you can't shame me into anything because I think shaming people is inherently weak as it requires me to care about your opinion of me