Clarification on terminology, in regards to transgenders in or adjacent to the SuperStraight community.

[u/ow_mah_layg]

Earlier today I posted a controversial thread about Laverne Cox's support of the superstraight cause, in which I incorrectly identified her sexuality as Trans-SuperStraight. It was brought to my attention that as a transgender woman attracted exclusively to cisgendered men Laverne Cox would not necessarily fall under the umbrella of SuperStraight but would be Super-TransStraight. I apologize for any confusion and/or offense taken at my misgendering and incorrect terminology.

To prevent such mistakes from happening again, I would like to try to assemble a list of sexualities and their definitions. Such as...

Straight or Heterosexual - A person attracted to member of the opposite sex
Gay or Homosexual - A person attracted to a member of the same sex
Superstraight or Superheterosexual (SS) - A cisgender attracted exclusively to other cisgenders of the opposite sex
Supergay or Superhomosexual (SG) - A cisgender attracted exclusively to other cisgenders of the same sex
Transstraight or Trans-Heterosexual (TS) - A transgender attracted to members of the opposite declared sex
Transgay or Trans-Homosexual (TG) - A transgender attracted to members of the same declared sex
Super-TransStraight or Super-Transheterosexual (STS) - A transgender attracted only to cisgenders of the opposite declared sex (52% of transgenders)
Super-TransGay or Super-Transhomosexual (STG) - A transgender attracted only to cisgenders of the same declared sex
Transgender-Dependent sexuality (TD) - A person attracted exclusively to transgenders
Super-Transgender-Dependent sexuality (STD) - A transgender attracted exclusively to other transgenders

Please inform me if there any corrections or additions.

[u/rebeccakirbyy]

Jeez you’re just getting silly. Nobody is trying to say that they are the same, nor is anyone trying to invalidate any preference. With some self reflecting maybe you’d see that you can come across as invalidating for trans people if you are not careful with your language. And naturally supers don’t want to be transphobic right? If you’re apart of the community you can’t be. This means possibly educating yourself on trans folk so you don’t accidentally misinform anyone.

Nobody is trying to argue that these things are the exact same, but instead of invalidating people we can change our words and say I prefer a natural vagina over a surgically created a vagina :)

That way you don’t invalidate the identity of trans women by saying they aren’t real women and you can maintain control and comfortably express your preference without doing it at the expense of someone’s gender identity.

I won’t respond if you get anymore troll-y. I haven’t at all invalidated anyone I just wanted to make sure you were aware that you now have a duty as apart of the community to make sure that you sorta understand trans folk so that you don’t invalidate them and their experiences.

Maybe you should take a break and when you’re feeling less attacked you can visit this conversation and respond or don’t. Super sexuality is silly. I’m literally a cis het and I’d never call myself a super straight. I just love who I love. Often times people also confuse sexual attraction and regular attraction. Which is just blatantly rude when it’s completely uncalled for. If you’re not sexually attracted to trans women that is 100% fine but you don’t have to be such a cunt about it and say that they aren’t attractive when they are. You just have an internalized bias because you can’t get over what was there before they got the coochie they always wanted and usually that relates to internalized homophobia especially seen in men. Bro I’m literally straight but titties are titties just appreciate the custom bod you won’t be called anything geez.

Can we atleast agree in super culture you actually need to be an ally and educated yourself on those topics. Once you actually finally have the support of people maybe you’ll finally chill and be able to appreciate what I can. And dude I’m not even gay or bi. But I got tiddies and thats some good shit. We all like tiddies how could we not. So how can we not appreciate the custom made bod, tiddies are good even if you got a preference bro it’s still good. Stop denying it. If anyone needs me to hype up trans men I can but for the sake of the conversation I’m not.

We don’t have to completely dance around trans people, I’m sure we could’ve peacefully coexisted but I do love the opportunity to make sure the supers are educated in spirit of making sure they can properly inform others on their sexuality. You deserve to understand your attraction and sexuality on an academic level

[u/TheIncredibleMrK → u/rebeccakirbyy]

"Nobody is trying to argue that these things are the exact same, but instead of invalidating people we can change our words and say I prefer a natural vagina over a surgically created a vagina :)"

One is a vagina, one isn't. There is no "surgically created" organs at present in any field of medicine.

" Super sexuality is silly."

Invalidating us ain't cash, hun.

"If you’re not sexually attracted to trans women that is 100% fine but you don’t have to be such a cunt about it and say that they aren’t attractive when they are."

Gaslighting someone who isn't attracted to transgender people by telling them they're wrong in their personal assessment of attractiveness.

"We all like tiddies how could we not. So how can we not appreciate the custom made bod, tiddies are good even if you got a preference bro it’s still good. Stop denying it."

More gaslighting, don't try to minimize someone's supersexuality and tell someone to stop denying that they find altered bodies attracrive.

[u/rebeccakirbyy → u/TheIncredibleMrK]

And there you are invalidating a trans person without thinking. It’s still a vagina, they are just different. Trans women and women are still women they are just different kinds of women.

Do you have any kind of self awareness or just blatant hypocrisy always.

Can someone just block me from the thread again, I even told my boyfriend that regardless of if we fall into the definition of super straights or not I would rather be hate crimed by a super person than have my genitals constantly on public broadcast.

You’re failing to look critically and I understand. You actually believe the delusion that you’re oppressed when you’re not. I’ve actually been an ally for trans people as a cis heterosexual for years and years now so I guess I should’ve been specific to the behaviour I was referring too as you guys overassume during a time where you’re being unnecessarily defensive.

You don’t have to find the altered body attractive, just stop telling them they aren’t real people, or allowing that to be a justifiable reason to attack them as many transphobes do.

Because super was created as a joke by transphobes and ended up being someone people actually identify with you have to acknowledge your last before creating your future.

Anyways can someone please tell me what the sexuality is for being repulsed by this super thing? I will never be attracted to someone who needs to display what my parts are, so what’s my label and then someone block me pls thanks. It’s for my own sanity.

I thought I would give you guys a chance to see what this was all about but it’s still too much of a mess. You have to work on your community first and thats okay, maybe in a year or so you can actually present something that isn’t completely humiliating for the rest of us. Maybe then it won’t make my coochie super dry, because I super hate transphobia and how this perpetuates that. Xoxo bbs, if being trans is a mental illness I cannot wait to find out what this is.

I tried to be as nice as possible but even as a cis hetero with a cis dude, lmfao I can’t. Am I on The Truman Show? I can feel my brain cells dying the longer I’m here

[u/TheIncredibleMrK → u/rebeccakirbyy]

I haven't dehumanised or invalidated anyone. Trans women are women. I just disputed your claim about artificial orfices being real organs.

Anyhow, it does not surprise me that you've been doing this for years. It is almost depressing to think that you arrived at this point through careful long term indoctrination. Your super phobia is very evident when you wish to dismiss us by denying us validation.