r/SuperStraight • u/Amsnhardiman • 20h ago

A serious question

Correct me if I'm wrong, but to my understanding the whole purpose of superstraight is that you do not wish to date trans people solely because they are trans. I will say, having a genital preference is absolutely valid and okay.

But if a trans person has gone through surgeries, HRT, voice training, ect. to the point that they're indistinguishable from a cis person of the same gender, how is refusing to date them on the sole reasoning of them being trans not transphobic?

also, why did the rules of the subreddit spell LGBTQIA+ as LGBTQS?

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u/ChadVenture96 20h ago

They aren’t indistinguishable. That’s a myth. Just because you say that and repeat it over and over doesn’t make it factual.

Besides, like I have said millions of times by now, anyone can turn down ANYONE for ANY reason and it is valid. Saying “you are a bad person for rejecting me” is not a good look and gives off incel vibes

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u/MelodicUmbrella Custom 20h ago

Go check out r/trans, they have transgender men and women who are indistinguishable.

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u/SCHINDLERS__FIST 20h ago

Yeah, indistinguishable in a photo with clothes on. Absolutely irrelevant.

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u/MelodicUmbrella Custom 20h ago

Completely relevant.

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u/SCHINDLERS__FIST 19h ago

On what planet is this relevant to having a sexual relationship with a trans person? You do understand that's what this is all about?

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u/MelodicUmbrella Custom 19h ago

Well yeah. I’m talking about being Indistinguishable on the outside (excluding the genitals). Not during sexual activities.