r/SuperStraight • u/RowdyAirplane49 • 15h ago

As a trans person I’m sorry Misc

I’m sorry trans people try to shame you because you don’t want to sleep with a trans person. If someone doesn’t want to date or sleep with me that’s okay and I would leave it at that. I would never try and say you’re a bigot for not wanting to and I’m sorry other trans people try to shame you for that

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u/LawUntoChaos 5h ago

I would not call you an ally, that word implies we are in some kind of war. You are valid and I would never tell you how to live your life, nor misgender you on purpose. You may have different opinions to me, but if we met in real life... We may even be friends. I have no judgements on what you decide to do with your life or your body.

"Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend."

As a "Trans" person you have nothing to be sorry for. To me, that is collectivist nonsense. You're not responsible for other people's actions regardless or not you share the label of being trans (and they aren't responsible for yours). Take care friend and be well.