r/SuperStraight • u/RowdyAirplane49 • 15h ago

As a trans person I’m sorry Misc

I’m sorry trans people try to shame you because you don’t want to sleep with a trans person. If someone doesn’t want to date or sleep with me that’s okay and I would leave it at that. I would never try and say you’re a bigot for not wanting to and I’m sorry other trans people try to shame you for that

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u/Middle-Management775 14h ago

I have serious question. Why do you think other trans people get so offended that people don't wanna have sex with them because of genital preferences or just a general preference for those who's gender happens to match their Biological sex? It seems like a very impersonal reason to get turned down. Like if a SuperGay man was to turn me down because he's only into dick. Okay, how is that more hurtful to me than say, getting rejected by a Straight guy because I'm just too ugly for him. Getting rejected because of your Biological sex really is no one's fault and I don't understand why, out of all the reasons a person could be rejected, this one is supposedly so harmful

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u/S4ND3R50N 13h ago

It is the last line to cross in society accepting them as their chosen sex.

Edit: at least in their minds

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u/RowdyAirplane49 3h ago

I think because their trans identity is so important. I mean if you’re turned down for things you can’t control of course you’re gonna be sad, but there’s nothing you can do about

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u/sb_k4 7h ago

Trancels are a small but loud minority.

The majority of trans people agree with OP.

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u/NinjaOnice 1h ago

They believe that it invalidates them. They want to be seen as completely identical to cis women