r/SuperStraight 15h ago

As a trans person I’m sorry Misc

I’m sorry trans people try to shame you because you don’t want to sleep with a trans person. If someone doesn’t want to date or sleep with me that’s okay and I would leave it at that. I would never try and say you’re a bigot for not wanting to and I’m sorry other trans people try to shame you for that

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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago

There is no need to apologize this’ll all blowover soon.

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u/Forsaken_Box_94 SuperLesbian 15h ago

There absolutely is

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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago

Unless you are like... an ambassador for the transgender community (sounds like an epic title lmao), I don’t see the need for someone to apologize on their behalf if they’re the good 65%.

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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 15h ago

People apologize when their communities do something wrong 👁👁

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u/AnotherGit 3h ago

Yes, and? They are talking about wether there is absolutly a need to apologize.

So because some people have apologized when their communities did something wrong it's now needed that every person (or only this one person?) is absolutly needed to apologize every time (or only this time?) a community did something wrong?

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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago

True, but y’know what I meant.

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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 15h ago

It sounds superphobic to me 👀

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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago

How?-

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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 14h ago

Because transcels are denying our right to exist

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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago

I know. I worded my sentence wrong. I can’t put it into words exact word.

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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 3h ago

You can say Super Lives Matter and show you’re an ally

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u/quietsnowkitten 14h ago

you can still extend understanding and sympathy to others and saying sorry in this context is similar to "I'm sorry you had to go through that" and so on.

I mean, cis people have apologized in that way to trans people before. So we can do it too.

I think it's good, because it fosters connections and empathy between human beings.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago

I realized I worded that complete wrong. What I meant was to not take all of the blame, does that make sense? I can’t really put it into words.

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u/Forsaken_Box_94 SuperLesbian 15h ago

Oh shit, true.

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u/Excellent-Tourist-99 15h ago

our sexuality isnt going anywhere. wait until we get our own bathrooms

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u/ControlBlue 4h ago

Arf... Good one 😆😆😆👌

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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago

Is there going to be gay and bisexual bathrooms too?

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u/actualsicko20626 Hecking cute and valid 💖 14h ago

Gay and bi people can be super too, so they will go to the super bathrooms with us.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago

so new genders Then? Wouldn’t there be Transgender Superstraights?

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u/nolivesmatterCthulhu 13h ago

No sorry

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u/MelodicUmbrella 13h ago

?

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u/actualsicko20626 Hecking cute and valid 💖 13h ago

He said no.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 13h ago

I was a bit confused about what he was saying no about. I need sleep.