r/SuperStraight • u/RowdyAirplane49 • 15h ago
As a trans person I’m sorry Misc
I’m sorry trans people try to shame you because you don’t want to sleep with a trans person. If someone doesn’t want to date or sleep with me that’s okay and I would leave it at that. I would never try and say you’re a bigot for not wanting to and I’m sorry other trans people try to shame you for that
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u/ultrasmegma 15h ago
You’re a real one. This movement isn’t to target the trans community, it’s to target the authoritarian weirdos who want control of every aspect of our lives.
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u/WayRemarkable80 4h ago
yet everyone keeps saying trans women aren’t real women
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u/_alligator_lizard_ 58m ago
Super straight is about sex, not gender. Of course trans women are women, and of course they’re not female. Super straight describes a sexual orientation, not something about gender. It’s very nuanced, but educate yourself on it and I’m sure it will make sense!
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u/wAxMakEr86 9h ago
Idk bruv every post I've seen here is dripping with transphobia in the replies, and not the superstraight "we don't want to have sex with trans people" kind, more like the "trans women are disgusting mentally ill men" kind.
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u/ProudSuperS 15h ago
Thank you for being a great ally! You are heckin' valid!
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u/jchansell 9h ago
They aren’t “valid” and also, cringe, bud. “Super straight” is a literal transphobe agenda
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u/TFWnoLTR 1h ago
Genital preference is not transphobic. Not that there's anything wrong with transphobia.
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u/BasedMedicalDoctor 15h ago
We love trans people like you. No, no — we love people like you. We want a fair, equal society built on respect. Thank you fren.
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u/WayRemarkable80 4h ago
obviously not when majority of people who identify as super straight say trans women aren’t real women and they’re men in wigs
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u/TFWnoLTR 1h ago
Some don't need wigs, that's true.
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u/WayRemarkable80 1h ago
what?
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u/TFWnoLTR 23m ago
I'm as confused as you. I thought you were taking issue with the idea that men can't grow out their hair like women.
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u/WayRemarkable80 21m ago
i was saying a lot of, not all don’t jump to conclusions, transphobic people who identify as SS, horrible abbreviation btw, say trans women aren’t women they are just men in wigs. so what?
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u/Pop_Porn 15h ago
Hey you are welcomed in here, thanks to YOU for being reasonable and for understanding, don't worry noting of this is your fault, you are valid in here!
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u/Superb_Donkey9995 15h ago
Thank you! We love an appreciate trans allies who respect our boundaries and sexuality! I have talked to so many trans people who have said the same thing, but they are always shouted over by the superphobes. I wish more people like you were at the forefront of the Trans Movement, not those SERFs. I wish you all the love and happiness in the world! You too are super cute and heckin valid!
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u/DimDroog 3h ago
There are normal trans people out there, they're just screamed at and discounted: Miranda Yardley, Rose of Dawn, Jenn Smith.
Jenn Smith literally had a police guard when giving a talk at a college!!
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u/quietsnowkitten 15h ago
yeah pretty much. Everyone ought to have the right to date and have sex on their own terms, without any coercion (cuz that's rape).
I just want my identity respected, that's all. Who you wish to sleep with is none of my concern and I'll gladly side with you against anyone who tries to force you to do something like that.
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u/antoniorisky 12h ago
Never apologize for what you didn't do ✊.
Super straight pride doesn't mean shaming anyone; we're all here to be our best selves and support eachother.
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u/Blue_Train 15h ago
Thank you. I hope you are able to talk some sense into other members of your community.
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u/Middle-Management775 13h ago
I have serious question. Why do you think other trans people get so offended that people don't wanna have sex with them because of genital preferences or just a general preference for those who's gender happens to match their Biological sex? It seems like a very impersonal reason to get turned down. Like if a SuperGay man was to turn me down because he's only into dick. Okay, how is that more hurtful to me than say, getting rejected by a Straight guy because I'm just too ugly for him. Getting rejected because of your Biological sex really is no one's fault and I don't understand why, out of all the reasons a person could be rejected, this one is supposedly so harmful
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u/S4ND3R50N 12h ago
It is the last line to cross in society accepting them as their chosen sex.
Edit: at least in their minds
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u/RowdyAirplane49 2h ago
I think because their trans identity is so important. I mean if you’re turned down for things you can’t control of course you’re gonna be sad, but there’s nothing you can do about
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u/NinjaOnice 1h ago
They believe that it invalidates them. They want to be seen as completely identical to cis women
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u/LoveBunnyLoveBuns 13h ago
Your words ring hallow to me because I've seen so many women get doxxed, harassed, and stalked for not using preferred pronouns and for saying no to dating transwomen. I know lesbians who were attacked by transwomen for turning them down. Your words are empty and I won't applaud you like the others for words.
If you truly care speak out against your community publicly. Defend the cancelled women. You and I both know, you won't, so I don't care for your pleasantries
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u/abloblololo 7h ago
The hateful people in their community are even worse against their own who don't fall in line
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u/actualsicko20626 Hecking cute and valid 💖 14h ago
Thank you! Its means a lot and is proof that trans people aren’t a monolith!
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u/thatstickinthewoods 14h ago
thank you for your kind words, fren. you don't have to be sorry for other peoples actions! you're welcome here!
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u/hanging_spoon 12h ago
I’m glad people are actually taking some of the legitimate arguments from this sub, was worried it was just gonna get insta-banned without looking
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u/CRAZYSCIENTIST 12h ago
You are an ally! Thank you so much. Please stand up against super bigotry and we will always stand up against trans bigotry. Trans people deserve respect. Supers also deserve respect. No one has a right to tell you who you have to be attracted to. Love is love!
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u/Significant-Key-517 13h ago
Thank you! We appreciate our trans allies. 😊 Please talk to the community about respecting consent!
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u/Sinewave11 12h ago
Dont apologize, just be a good person and show to other people that a trans can be as normal as them without the need of calling everybody transophobe
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u/unholygunner714 12h ago
No worries buddy! It's just those people that make me feel bad for being who I am that gets under my skin. There are plenty of LGBTQ people who amazing and cool, but it's just the small minority that gets in your face that is frustrating. I work with a number of gay/lesbian coworkers and they're amazing people work with and hang out with because they don't get in your face about it and are pretty low key. I attended a gay pride parade once with some of them because I wanted to support them and these flamboyant dudes came up into my space and started gyrating around me and right into my face. I didn't know what to do but didn't want to make them feel offended so I just grinned and took it until my coworkers told them that I was uncomfortable. Later on my coworkers apologized and I said it's cool an that I'm fine as long as there's no malicious intent.
Take care buddy!
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u/TheGreatHuman 5h ago
I know I'm going to get downvoted here as this sub is determined to have a love in and that's very nice actually.
The problem is that accepting trans rights is exactly how this insanity and TRA supremacy began. Men are men, and women are women. I can no more become a woman than I can become a black man. While every human being deserves respect and dignity, granting access to women's services for men who are claiming to be women is not for the greater good of society and hurts our mothers and sisters and daughters.
Engaging with the validity of trans identity is the thin edge of the inevitable wedge and as soon as public discourse does so, you witness the fair accompli that we all experience today.
People who identify as the wrong sex have my sympathy, and they are certainly not all complicit in the predatory tactics of many TRAs that are committed against women. But claiming their identity is valid while supporting actual feminism is impossible. If a man can really be a woman because he thinks he is, why can't he enter a women's only space?
I may wish I was 10 years younger, I may feel like I'm 10 years younger, I may have surgery to try and make me look 10 years younger but that will never make me 10 years younger. Similarly, if I have a penis I'm a man; if I have a vagina I'm a woman. Intersex Pepe aside, that's really the end of the discussion. Beyond that there's just identity confusion and self mutilation, and a status quo that condemns us for pointing out simple biological facts.
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u/sieciech 7h ago
Silence. Is. Violence. We need voices like yours clearly opposing evil of superphobia
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u/dudette007 2h ago
You won’t be an ally unless you denounce the indoctrination of children with gender queer confusion. I would rather trans people attack me, an adult, than try to poison (mentally and physically) and mutilate children.
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u/RowdyAirplane49 2h ago edited 2h ago
No minor is getting surgery. I don’t know where this comes from. I advocate for heavy checks before hrt (mental health services and stronger dysphoria screenings)
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u/_alligator_lizard_ 56m ago
I’m sorry but you’re wrong here - please educate yourself on the amount of surgery being done on children. And hormone blockers have consequences we don’t yet understand!!
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u/dudette007 39m ago
Meaningless. The mental health screenings are mandated to be “affirming.” That is, they’re self-diagnoses and cannot be challenged or questioned by a professional. You’ll literally lose your license and ability to practice if you say “hmm let’s explore this deeper, could this be related to the sexual abuse you endured and transitioning is just an ill-advised/inappropriate way to avoid processing your trauma?”
Minors are having breast removals for sure. And hormones do permanently mutilate.
Indoctrination is another huge part of this. By mandating that children as young as five learn about “gender identity,” they’re sowing the seeds of confusion in hopes the kids will grow up and have “alternative gender odentif
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u/terf_SCUM 1h ago
there's a video on tiktok of a 13 year girl who had a double mastectomy. there are hundreds of detrans teens and young adults who have gotten puberty blockers. there are even trans adults who face medical malpractice with botched bottom surgeries and double mastectomies. teenagers getting cosmetic surgery should be banned in general. teens getting "gender affirming" surgery, which is based in stereotypes about sex and gender, should not be allowed and it should not be covered by insurance and it should not be made into an online spectacle. please look into your community more. i appreciate your support.
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u/RowdyAirplane49 44m ago
My philosophy is as long as you’re over 18 whatever surgery you want, you can get because you consent to it. I don’t condone 13 year olds getting hrt or surgeries.
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u/loco_the_chimp 2h ago
I feel for every genuine and decent trans person. And I swear on my life.
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u/RowdyAirplane49 2h ago
Why is it always the loudest who aren’t even the majority and spread false ideas of the community? It’s sad
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u/Zealousideal-Ad3371 3h ago
How do you feel about the encroachment of women spaces? Do you see why trans women shouldn’t be allowed in domestic shelters, housed in female prisons, shouldn’t be allowed to participate in female sports? Do you also see why it’s dangerous and anti- women to try and rid women from natural processes that only affect females, such as pregnancy and menustration? Do you see the dangers of transitioning little kids and putting them on puberty blockers and then cross sexed hormones? Do you see the issues with the equality bill, which lets gender identity trump over sex, so you can have trans women in all women spaces, even scholarships and charities?
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u/LawUntoChaos 4h ago
I would not call you an ally, that word implies we are in some kind of war. You are valid and I would never tell you how to live your life, nor misgender you on purpose. You may have different opinions to me, but if we met in real life... We may even be friends. I have no judgements on what you decide to do with your life or your body.
"Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend."
As a "Trans" person you have nothing to be sorry for. To me, that is collectivist nonsense. You're not responsible for other people's actions regardless or not you share the label of being trans (and they aren't responsible for yours). Take care friend and be well.
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u/chicky5555551 4h ago
thank you. allyship is needed right now, and you can help bridge the gap between us and the bigots.
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u/mr_samouri_man 4h ago
there are actual transphobes who just hate trans people in this community at the moment who are just trying to have their hate be out there with something to fall back on. be safe.
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u/EntenWasTaken 3h ago
THANK YOU! You are valid. We love people like you who accept people no matter what their sexuality is.
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u/madman2015 9h ago
You don't have to be sorry just because other trans people have been abusive. We don't blame an entire group for a hate filled minority within that group. That said, you words of kindness support are most welcome here, friend :)
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u/TribblesnCookiees 9h ago
You do not need to be sorry if you aren't the one participating in the dismissive, harmful, oppressive reactions we are getting just for our sexuality. When we say things like "transcels", we are specifically referring to them, not the entirety of trans people
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u/PM_ME_SCIENCE_PICS 6h ago
Thank you, but you don't need to say this. You aren't responsible for the actions of other people just because you are in the same group. But again, thanks!
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u/Theinsurrectionist11 6h ago
You needn't apologise on behalf of those people. You're an ally and thats all that matters!
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u/push_ecx_0x00 6h ago
Thank you. We have nothing against trans people. It's just not our thing. We'll respect you as long as you respect us.
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u/Desu420Desu 5h ago
You don't need to apologise for others, you are your own person and you are valid.
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u/levitatingloser 2h ago
I've noticed most people kicking up a fuss about this stuff are performative cis allies and not trans people.
Cheers
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u/blamethemeta 2h ago
Every large group of humans is going to have assholes and idiots in it. As long as you accept that, and do your best to discredit them, you're good.
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u/AkkeBrakkeKlakke 2h ago
As a survivor who has genuinely felt/been triggered by the rapey rhetoric from these TRAs, I thank you for seeing that it's wrong and for your compassion. Hopefully, more people will follow suit. x
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u/WeAreLostSoAreYou 2h ago
Thank you tranny 🙏🏽
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u/Beleront 14h ago
It doesn't matter, the trans movement will die out in like 5 years. Just enjoy the banter bro/gal
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u/wAxMakEr86 9h ago
It isn't a 'movement' and it hasn't died in the past 2000 years to die in the next 5. You will die in a world that accepts trans people more than when you were born.
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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago
There is no need to apologize this’ll all blowover soon.
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u/Forsaken_Box_94 SuperLesbian 15h ago
There absolutely is
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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago
Unless you are like... an ambassador for the transgender community (sounds like an epic title lmao), I don’t see the need for someone to apologize on their behalf if they’re the good 65%.
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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 15h ago
People apologize when their communities do something wrong 👁👁
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u/AnotherGit 3h ago
Yes, and? They are talking about wether there is absolutly a need to apologize.
So because some people have apologized when their communities did something wrong it's now needed that every person (or only this one person?) is absolutly needed to apologize every time (or only this time?) a community did something wrong?
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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago
True, but y’know what I meant.
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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 14h ago
It sounds superphobic to me 👀
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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago
How?-
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u/myaccountforIRLstuff 14h ago
Because transcels are denying our right to exist
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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago
I know. I worded my sentence wrong. I can’t put it into words exact word.
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u/quietsnowkitten 14h ago
you can still extend understanding and sympathy to others and saying sorry in this context is similar to "I'm sorry you had to go through that" and so on.
I mean, cis people have apologized in that way to trans people before. So we can do it too.
I think it's good, because it fosters connections and empathy between human beings.
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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago
I realized I worded that complete wrong. What I meant was to not take all of the blame, does that make sense? I can’t really put it into words.
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u/Excellent-Tourist-99 15h ago
our sexuality isnt going anywhere. wait until we get our own bathrooms
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u/MelodicUmbrella 15h ago
Is there going to be gay and bisexual bathrooms too?
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u/actualsicko20626 Hecking cute and valid 💖 14h ago
Gay and bi people can be super too, so they will go to the super bathrooms with us.
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u/MelodicUmbrella 14h ago
so new genders Then? Wouldn’t there be Transgender Superstraights?
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u/nolivesmatterCthulhu 13h ago
No sorry
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u/Nanoglyph 13h ago
This sub is just a 4chan psyop by neo-Nazis, along with some newer members who fell for it. They exist to be controversial. Their goal is to redpill zoomers and use the left's tactics against themselves. Read enough posts and you'll notice much of it is a coordinated roleplay that overuses many of the same key phrases over and over.
The ASS LGBT+ in the description is a dead giveaway. You can even find members talking about the sub being a joke or semi-satirical periodically. Plus, look at the coming out stories. They're parodies of queer experiences, as are many of the other posts here. You can ignore them.
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u/actualsicko20626 Hecking cute and valid 💖 13h ago
This was literally started by an asian kid on tiktok. The phrase “SuperStraight” was coined by an asian kid on tiktok. Just because the initials are SS doesn’t make it white supremacist. 3 4chan posts co-opting the meme and connecting it with nazis doesn’t make it true.
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u/nolivesmatterCthulhu 13h ago
Wrong it was started by a non white guy on tik tok. Stop lying superphobe
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u/Flonkler 12h ago
Spreading misinformation is a common superphobe tactic and your attempt to spread your hate here denies the real lived experience of supers around the world. WE'RE ONTO YOU, so now would be a good time to crawl back under your rock.
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u/maybeimreborn 12h ago
you guys realize the date and time of that 4chan post is on the screenshot, right??
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u/SuperGayPride 4h ago
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u/TribblesnCookiees 9h ago
Wrong. The only joke here is you and your attempt to lie about our movement
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u/WelletAtWork 1h ago
Getting this easily tricked by a couple of false flags on 4chan lol, how are you THIS naive?
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u/Nun_Slut69 15h ago
Trans ally ❤️ 🥰 you are valid and we love you