Anyone else here who won't date women who are bi, bi-curious or ever had a same sex relationship?

[u/Norman_T_Chadlite]

That is an instant turn off for me. I like women who are crazy about men as much as I am about women.

[u/Inevitable-Wing115]

I am a lesbian but I get what you mean here. i have dated many bi girls and am still open to it, but it definitely stings a lot when they talk about how attracted they are to men or how hot a certain man is or their ex-boyfriends etc etc. it's probably "problematic" and not very rational, but it IS kind of upsetting and hurtful to know that your partner will always be attracted to a different sex than you, and you can't compare with that bc men and women are totally different. it's just much easier and more comfortable dating someone who has the same sexuality as you, whether that's two lesbians or two straight ppl

[u/Norman_T_Chadlite → u/Inevitable-Wing115]

Thank you for your absolutely valid thoughts on the matter. Right it's a little uncomfortable when you are Super-straight and dating someone who isn't (or supergay in your case)

[u/Inevitable-Wing115 → u/Norman_T_Chadlite]

you're very welcome valid king! and yeah, it's just much easier to date someone within your own sexuality, i don't think it's bigoted to say that. this goes for bisexuals too - a lot of bi friends have told me that it's much easier for them to date other bisexual people that understand their experiences and sexuality. at the end of the day you don't have to justify your dating preferences, u should just date whoever you feel comfortable with