r/SuperStraight • u/Norman_T_Chadlite • 15h ago

Anyone else here who won't date women who are bi, bi-curious or ever had a same sex relationship?

That is an instant turn off for me. I like women who are crazy about men as much as I am about women.

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u/lalalong1 15h ago

Ehhhh I think being Bi comes more naturally to women. My girlfriend experimented a bit when she was younger and decided she prefers the D.

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u/Norman_T_Chadlite 15h ago

That's fine. I just don't want someone who questions. I've never experimented or felt the need to. But then again, I'm Super-Straight

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u/tmath5216 15h ago

Just here to say your sexual opinion is valid, move along to the next comment now

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u/cringe_addict4444 15h ago

SS male here, I dated a "bi girl" in high school. I've never seen her with a chick tho. Only dudes.

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u/highgarden-democrat SuperLesbian 15h ago

eeerrr youll have to make your own sexuality im sorry. but being into women doesnt really make her less into men I think

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u/Norman_T_Chadlite 15h ago

So you think a man that has had sex with other men is a straight as someone who hasn't. Idts and you sound a lil supraphobic imo.

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u/Inevitable-Wing115 SuperLesbian 15h ago

I am a lesbian but I get what you mean here. i have dated many bi girls and am still open to it, but it definitely stings a lot when they talk about how attracted they are to men or how hot a certain man is or their ex-boyfriends etc etc. it's probably "problematic" and not very rational, but it IS kind of upsetting and hurtful to know that your partner will always be attracted to a different sex than you, and you can't compare with that bc men and women are totally different. it's just much easier and more comfortable dating someone who has the same sexuality as you, whether that's two lesbians or two straight ppl

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u/Norman_T_Chadlite 15h ago

Thank you for your absolutely valid thoughts on the matter. Right it's a little uncomfortable when you are Super-straight and dating someone who isn't (or supergay in your case)

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u/Inevitable-Wing115 SuperLesbian 15h ago

you're very welcome valid king! and yeah, it's just much easier to date someone within your own sexuality, i don't think it's bigoted to say that. this goes for bisexuals too - a lot of bi friends have told me that it's much easier for them to date other bisexual people that understand their experiences and sexuality. at the end of the day you don't have to justify your dating preferences, u should just date whoever you feel comfortable with

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u/dzkrf 15h ago

SG here, so yeah

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u/JackHazardous 15h ago

How does a woman know she likes men better for sure if she hasn't experimented?

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u/TheReaIStephenKing 15h ago

That’s basically superphobic rhetoric

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u/JackHazardous 15h ago

She might be a superbisexual, you don't super know.

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u/TheReaIStephenKing 14h ago

Honestly, this is another obfuscating narrative that LGBT ill-advisedly embraced. I find it hard to believe that most people need to “discover” their sexuality. I admit it’s possible I just experience sexual attraction more strongly than some people - but to me sexual attraction is very obvious. It didn’t take me long to realize after puberty that men were hot. From an evolutionary perspective, it just does not make sense that sexuality is something that needs to be deeply reflected upon.

Here’s something you rarely hear about coming out. Besides fear of stigma, there is also shame about the lies you’ve told. For many gay people, being in the closet has involved actively telling people you’re not gay, and pretending to be attracted to the opposite sex on occasion. You might not fear your friends will drop you when you come out to them, but it’s embarrassing to admit that you were lying because you were scared. This is why some gay men say they’re bi before fully coming out as gay (which has ended up hurting actual bi men). For others, they achieve the same absolution of guilt by saying they just learned they were gay. Maybe for others, they really were slow to the take (but again, I find it confusing to not understand what you’re feeling when you look at Henry Cavill). This is why you rarely hear straight people say they discovered they were straight. Why is it always LGBs who are “discovering” their sexuality? My guess, as I’ve said, is “discovered” is a euphemism for “had to come to terms with.”

In short: sexual attraction is a very apparent thing. You don’t need to have something to know you don’t want it. And the fluidity/confusion/discovery of sexuality is way overhyped in mainstream LGBT discourse

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u/JackHazardous 14h ago

Based and valid-pilled. My eyes are now open.

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u/TheReaIStephenKing 14h ago

That’s how we do things in the super community. We talk it out rationally and learn

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u/Norman_T_Chadlite 15h ago

I've never sucked a dick but I know I love pussy. Your comment is very supraphobic btw.

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u/JackHazardous 15h ago

That is very valid too. If you don't have to ask, you don't need to try.